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dbcrosby
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Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 5:30 PM
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FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
i was flipping out. FH is the best man at his best friends wedding. her fiance will be wearing the same exact bridal gown as me. this means that FH and FIL's will see the gown on someone else before me. im so sad!!! i love my gown and this ruins it.
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suven
Sunny skies on my wedding day!
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Wedding Date:
5/30/2004 2:00 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
How did you find out about this?
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Posted 6/29/04 6:16 PM
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RedHead
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Wedding Date:
10/2/2004 12:00 AM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
Posted by dbcrosby
i was flipping out. FH is the best man at his best friends wedding. her fiance will be wearing the same exact bridal gown as me. this means that FH and FIL's will see the gown on someone else before me. im so sad!!! i love my gown and this ruins it.
All your FIL's are going to your FH's friends wedding???
Sorry i would be upset too!
Message edited 6/29/2004 6:20:14 PM.
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Posted 6/29/04 6:19 PM
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dbcrosby
"I'm Addicted"
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Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 5:30 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
i was talking to her the other day and she was describing her dress and we fngured out that we have the same exact dress.
FH is very close to his best friend since elementary school so his friend is inviting FH's parents to the wedding as well.
i am so upset. everyone keeps saying no one will notice but i wanted to feel like my dress was special and unique.
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Posted 6/29/04 6:48 PM
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AJsMommy122
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2/20/2005 12:00 AM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
Posted by dbcrosby
i was talking to her the other day and she was describing her dress and we fngured out that we have the same exact dress.
FH is very close to his best friend since elementary school so his friend is inviting FH's parents to the wedding as well.
i am so upset. everyone keeps saying no one will notice but i wanted to feel like my dress was special and unique.
when is the wedding? If its soon I dont think they will remember it by next July.
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Posted 6/29/04 6:50 PM
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juju
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Wedding Date:
2/6/2004 6:45 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
Every dress looks different on everyone. Don't worry about it.
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Posted 6/29/04 7:11 PM
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BriBri529
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Wedding Date:
7/10/2005 3:00 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
Posted by oct.2004bride
Posted by dbcrosby
i was flipping out. FH is the best man at his best friends wedding. her fiance will be wearing the same exact bridal gown as me. this means that FH and FIL's will see the gown on someone else before me. im so sad!!! i love my gown and this ruins it.
All your FIL's are going to your FH's friends wedding???
Sorry i would be upset too!
My thoughts exactly
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Posted 6/29/04 7:13 PM
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GoingNutty
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Wedding Date:
11/18/2005 5:00 PM
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Chateau La Mer - AMAZING!
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Posted 6/29/04 7:14 PM
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janwinterbridejoy
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Wedding Date:
1/9/2004 2:30 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
i think that the dress will look different on you then it did her but if it bothers you that much can you possibly exchange it and order another one?
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Posted 6/29/04 7:25 PM
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nan&dave
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Wedding Date:
4/2/2005 12:00 AM
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Bridgeview Yacht Club
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
I'm sorry about this.
But I do agree with the other ladies. No two people can wear the dress the same. Somehow it will look different on you.
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Posted 6/29/04 7:50 PM
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eogara
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4/3/2005 6:00 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
But wait, did you tell FH that the dress is the same? Don't mention it to him! That way, he won't know to look at it that day and he's a boy - by the time you guys get married he'll never put 2 and 2 together!
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Posted 6/29/04 7:56 PM
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myasmom
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5/29/2004 5:00 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
So sorry to hear.
I could only imagine how you feel. But it is true, no two people wear the dress the same. Perhaps you can have the bridal salon alter yours somehow...they do this all the time.
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Posted 6/29/04 7:58 PM
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ckgmwedding
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7/16/2005 3:00 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
No one remembers, especially a guy! Trust me!!! I can't even remember what my best friend wore last year and I was the MOH!
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Posted 6/29/04 8:03 PM
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charlotte227
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Wedding Date:
8/21/2004 1:30 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
don't worry....all brides look different in their dresses and you will be just as beautiful on your day
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Posted 6/29/04 8:04 PM
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dbcrosby
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Wedding Date:
7/3/2005 5:30 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
thanks girls for your support. i wouldnt exchnage the dress b/c i know its the dress and its already ordered hollow to hem for me. when people say, it will look differently on her the only thing i can think if is that she is taller and skinner then me and the dress will probably look better on her. the weddings are two months apart, and yes FH knows. i freaked out and then i thought- o know he'll see my dress
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Posted 6/29/04 8:15 PM
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OSCARtheGROOM
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Wedding Date:
7/10/2005 3:00 PM
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Villa Lombardi's
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Posted 6/29/04 9:11 PM
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tonia1001
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10/1/2005 12:00 AM
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Posted 6/29/04 9:16 PM
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Nessa79
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Wedding Date:
7/30/2004 4:00 PM
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Chateau La Mer
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
oh im sorry, imsure you will look better in it if that makes you feel any better! Remember different accessories, flowers, hair and make up will all make the dress look different
YOU WILL BE GORGEOUS!!!
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Posted 6/29/04 10:11 PM
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chichila15
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9/18/2004 2:00 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
Oh man... I'm really sorry for you. :(
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Posted 6/29/04 11:30 PM
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Bebalina
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5/14/2005 3:00 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
well can u post the dress...maybe with all of us together theres something we can think of that 'll make it seem different? 
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Posted 6/29/04 11:32 PM
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ChristineC68
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
This is so upsetting but your hair, head piece & veil will be different.
You are going to look so beautiful and your FH is not only going to see your gown. He is going to be seeing his beautiful new wife filled with love and happiness.
If it's of any comfort, I doubt my DH could describe or pick out my dress on someone else - and we have a big picture on our wall 
Message edited 6/30/2004 6:59:33 AM.
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Posted 6/30/04 6:17 AM
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Joey'sbaby
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
I think people remember that you looked beautiful.....not necessarily the detail on your dress. It 's not just the dress - it's the veil, headpiece, flowers, hair and makeup that make the statement. I am sure that you will both look fabulous in your own way. It's a cliche but you will wear the dress - the dress won't wear you!!!
It is interesting that two good friends picked women with such similar taste...
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Posted 6/30/04 8:19 AM
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G&D
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11/14/2004 11:00 AM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
I cant believe it! I would also be upset but both of you will look different and unique even though the dress is the same. Was this by coincidence????
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Posted 6/30/04 8:31 AM
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FrescaBride
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Wedding Date:
4/30/2005 6:00 PM
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
Posted by juju
Every dress looks different on everyone. Don't worry about it.
I must agree with this. Two people can wear the same clothes and they will look different on each person. Each person has an unique style and the way they project themselves is different. Also, how far apart are the weddings? I'm quite sure your wedding and your dress will be remembered by YOU, the one that you are wearing and not by your FH's friend fiancee. And the accessories that you use are not the same as hers, so right there you both would give the dress a different look.
Don't worry, you would still look beautiful in your dress.
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Posted 6/30/04 8:35 AM
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Spitzergirl
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Wedding Date:
7/31/2004 3:30 PM
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Leonards
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Re: FH's best friend's fiance is wearing the same bridal gown as me and their wedding is before ours
Posted by dbcrosby
thanks girls for your support. i wouldnt exchnage the dress b/c i know its the dress and its already ordered hollow to hem for me. when people say, it will look differently on her the only thing i can think if is that she is taller and skinner then me and the dress will probably look better on her. the weddings are two months apart, and yes FH knows. i freaked out and then i thought- o know he'll see my dress
I don't think, you should have told..anyone...because now they will look at the dress even harder. But, don't worry, yours will look different.
I went to a wedding in May..and was absolutely scared, that we would have picked, the same gown. Thank GOD it did not happen. Good luck
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