QOTD! Do you feel like your impressions of other girls on this site has changed as time has gone by?

I know that there are always first impressions, sometimes accurate, sometimes not so much. In that light I am wondering, do you girls feel like your impressions have changed, either for the better or the worse about other people on here.

I don't mean for people to name names or anything like that, since this is not meant to start any trouble.

I would have to say yes, and mostly for the better. There are a few people that I thought I wouldn't get along with, but as the months passed, I realized that we had more in common than I thought.

First impressions are not always best, i guess.

Re: QOTD! Do you feel like your impressions of other girls on this site has changed as time has gone by?

For me - yes, for the better (majority)

However, there are a few yes, for the worse.

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I completely agree with you Jess...there are people I thought I would have nothing but the wedding planning in common with yet we chat and really do have many similarities and we get along. First impressions are not always the best!

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I'd say that in the few months I've been on here, most of the ladies have left a very good impression.

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Its easy to determine that if you have been to a GTG, which I have, so yes, i can see what you mean. You girls are all wonderful. Its so much different when when we meet each other at GTG. Its weird knowing so much about someone even though you have never met face to face.

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Yes, I do feel that way. I guess it's because for me, it was hard for me to show my personality right away because I was nervous posting. Now I feel more comfortable, so I can post personal things and let my true colors show. I feel that this probably happens to a lot of people and they open up as they become more familar with the boards. The more you hear about people, the more you see where they are coming from. So maybe one nasty post is cushioned by the fact that the person has either had a tough time lately, or they tend to be a nervous person and don't mean anything by it. Do you know what I mean?

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I never thought that my relationship with you girls would develop so much on so many different levels. For the most part, I am very happy that I have met some of you girls and that we all have a lot in common (even those that I have not met in person). The truth is that without you ladies, this wedding planning would definitely not be so much fun! Although, there are still a few people that I like to stay clear from...

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

I never thought that my relationship with you girls would develop so much on so many different levels. For the most part, I am very happy that I have met some of you girls and that we all have a lot in common (even those that I have not met in person). The truth is that without you ladies, this wedding planning would definitely not be so much fun! Although, there are still a few people that I like to stay clear from...

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Yes, I never liked Jess but now I think she's OK.
Sooooo kidding! I'm in a silly mood today. I luv ya Jess! Don't kill me.

To be honest, there hasn't been anyone that I didn't get along with on here. We all know there has been controversy in the past but I think for the most part that people aren't aware of what they are getting themselves into when they make a comment and of course typing a thought isn't always as clear as speaking it. So I would say there has been anyone that I didn't like for what they posted. I just try to keep an open mind. But yes, 1st impressions may last but aren't always a good judge of character in my experience.

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I'm going to agree with you, I really thought that I was going to be the odd ball and that everyone was going to act different with me.....but I realized that this site is full of intelligent, creative, helpful women and planning a wedding in less than 6 months have gone real smooth because of the girls here

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i try not to pass judgement so much. Getting to know many of you via GTG has been wonderful and i must say all of you are exactly how I imagined!!! Thank you ladies!!!

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My impressions have all changed for the better. I guess that will teach me not to jump to conclusions ....

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

Although, there are still a few people that I like to stay clear from...

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Re: QOTD! Do you feel like your impressions of other girls on this site has changed as time has gone by?

Yes, mostly for the better, and the more I meet people, the more I realize there are still a lot of good people out there.

There's only maybe a handful that I have no interest in meeting, but that could always change!

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Posted by miss_qiana

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

Although, there are still a few people that I like to stay clear from...

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I told you I would stay away after you issued me a restraining order.

I have to agree with the other girls. My opinions of other people on this site has pretty much stayed the same.

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Posted by BKtoLI

Yes, mostly for the better, and the more I meet people, the more I realize there are still a lot of good people out there.

There's only maybe a handful that I have no interest in meeting, but that could always change!

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Re: QOTD! Do you feel like your impressions of other girls on this site has changed as time has gone by?

i feel that people i liked right away were people i still like and like even more as i get to know them

people that i do not care for i pretty much feel the same about

i feel like i am pretty good at judging character from first impresions however im always open to changing my opinion of someone if they prove me wrong

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Posted by Preshy7

i feel that people i liked right away were people i still like and like even more as i get to know them

people that i do not care for i pretty much feel the same about

i feel like i am pretty good at judging character from first impresions however im always open to changing my opinion of someone if they prove me wrong

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Re: QOTD! Do you feel like your impressions of other girls on this site has changed as time has gone by?

I'd have to say that for the most part, my impression has been good for most. Some I stay clear of. But my GTG ladies are the best!!! Love you guys!!!! I'm still hoping to meet more ladies B4 my big day.

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I need to get to a GTG! It's so hard though since I don't live on LI. But I will do my best to make the next NYC one....I want to get to know y'all better!

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

I never thought that my relationship with you girls would develop so much on so many different levels. For the most part, I am very happy that I have met some of you girls and that we all have a lot in common (even those that I have not met in person). The truth is that without you ladies, this wedding planning would definitely not be so much fun! Although, there are still a few people that I like to stay clear from...

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Re: QOTD! Do you feel like your impressions of other girls on this site has changed as time has gone by?

Yes, mostly for the better.

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I wouldn't really say that my first impressions of people of changed so much, I kind of started everyone off on a blank slate. Then as I got to know everyone I developed opinions, a few bad, but for the most part I can honestly say that I can find many good things about everyone here.

GTGs are the best and really make this whole process of wedding planning and meeting new people online an even more rewarding experience. I never would've thought that we'd hit it off so well after only really talking to each other over the Internet, but when we GTG I feel like we've all known eachother for years!!

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Posted by cindyandkevin

I wouldn't really say that my first impressions of people of changed so much, I kind of started everyone off on a blank slate. Then as I got to know everyone I developed opinions, a few bad, but for the most part I can honestly say that I can find many good things about everyone here.

GTGs are the best and really make this whole process of wedding planning and meeting new people online an even more rewarding experience. I never would've thought that we'd hit it off so well after only really talking to each other over the Internet, but when we GTG I feel like we've all known eachother for years!!

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Re: QOTD! Do you feel like your impressions of other girls on this site has changed as time has gone by?

YES!
Some for the better..
some for the worse...