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VERY stressed this week.. little vent..

eternityawaits Posted: Jul 01, 2003 11:20 PM+

eternityawaits MEMBER SINCE: 5/03 TOTAL POSTS : 1823 WEDDING DATE: Aug 31, 2003

Posted: Jul 01, 2003 11:20 PM

VERY stressed this week.. little vent..

I am officially at the 2-month mark today, and now I am losing it.... I am NOT happy about the bachelor party plans... FH's best friend (our BM) has decided to come stay with us the entire week before the wedding for his 'vacation' and FH does not realize how much we will have to do nor does it seem to affect him in the least, he thinks he will have all the time in the world to hang out with his friend, and his friend is a SPOILED BRAT who will then blame me for everything when FH doesn't have time to hang out with him all week... Plus FH wants him to stay HERE, even though it wil be me, FH, FILS and FSIL and her bf ALL home for 5 days.. WE HAVE NO ROOM!!!....My boss made special arrangements for me for overtime so that I would have extra money for the HM, and his boss now says I can't do it, they don't want to pay me... Mom and FMIL are turning this into THEIR wedding, not mine, and I just want to cancel the whole thing.. I just want to throw a tantrum and tell the whole bunch of them to f'ing go to you know where...

eternityawaits Posted: Jul 01, 2003 11:20 PM+

eternityawaits MEMBER SINCE: 5/03 TOTAL POSTS : 1823 WEDDING DATE: Aug 31, 2003

Posted: Jul 01, 2003 11:20 PM

Re: VERY stressed this week.. little vent..

Thank you for letting me vent.

wenndypoo Posted: Jul 01, 2003 11:23 PM+

wenndypoo MEMBER SINCE: 1/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2390 WEDDING DATE: Apr 16, 2004

Posted: Jul 01, 2003 11:23 PM

Re: VERY stressed this week.. little vent..

!! The nerve! Are these people crazy?! Put your foot down and set some limits girl! Save your sanity!

Hang in there, you're on the home stretch!

eternityawaits Posted: Jul 01, 2003 11:25 PM+

eternityawaits MEMBER SINCE: 5/03 TOTAL POSTS : 1823 WEDDING DATE: Aug 31, 2003

Posted: Jul 01, 2003 11:25 PM

Re: VERY stressed this week.. little vent..

Oh yes I forgot to add... FMIL doesn't seem to see a problem with the BM staying here.. DUH!! FSIL and me and my mom all see this as a bad idea... She is on her own **** planet lately...

swags1016 Posted: Jul 01, 2003 11:33 PM+

swags1016 MEMBER SINCE: 3/03 TOTAL POSTS : 12228 WEDDING DATE: Jul 26, 2003

Posted: Jul 01, 2003 11:33 PM

Re: VERY stressed this week.. little vent..

Tina I am soooo sorry I totally freaked at the 2 month mark!!! It seems for whatever that is when you realize how short of a time span you have left and when In-laws become even more bizarre!!!!

Just remember to take a breath before you speak (this advice comes from me NOT doing that). Remember that this is YOUR day and that it is about you and FH and what you BOTH want. Set your limits. If BM has to stay there then make an itinerary!! Send his butt on wedding errands and tell him it is part of his job!!! Try to look at it this way-- SLAVE LABOR!!

Vent away