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Does anyone else get angry at DH/FI when he smokes...pot? (i hope this post doesn't get locked or anything) I don't know why, but whenver DH smokes, it really bothers me. He used to smoke ALL the time and I thought he had a problem with it, but he's since cut down tremendously. Still, whenever he hangs out with this one friend, NO MATTER WHAT, they get stoned, and I hate it. I know its no big deal, but for some reason I feel threatened by it and I absolutely hate it. Anyone else experience this?
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Intercourse knows no season...
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Re: Does anyone else get angry at DH/FI when he smokes...I don't have to go through that....but I have a tremendous hatred of the stuff since it almost ruined my brother's life a few years back. I have never tried it and never will. It causes way too many problems and it's just not worth it, in my opinion
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I know you are but what am I?
Member since 8/03 1859 total posts Wedding Date: Wed. Location: |
Re: Does anyone else get angry at DH/FI when he smokes...I am sorry you have to go through this, but I just want to add that getting stoned is a big deal. I would be very upset if My fi did this. I would ask him why he is doing it and what is he gaining out of it. That just my opinion but I think it sucks........
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Mom, forever in my Heart!
Member since 8/03 2544 total posts Wedding Date: Wed. Location: |
Re: Does anyone else get angry at DH/FI when he smokes...I have to say that I would be very upset by this! I honestly get upset with my FH when he smokes a cigarette!
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Go Yankees
Member since 7/01 4383 total posts Wedding Date: Wed. Location: |
Re: Does anyone else get angry at DH/FI when he smokes...I agree with Peeweesgirl , it is a big deal. It seems you think so too or it would not bother you so much.
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Re: Does anyone else get angry at DH/FI when he smokes...My FI smokes pot too...but not in front of me anymore but I know he does because he reeks of it sometimes. I tried getting angry and upset but he just calls me a nag. He said that he was going to quit a few years ago but he never did...then he drastically cut down. But this week his room reeked of pot. I don't mind every once and a while but I don't want him doing it anymore once we have children.
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Mom, forever in my Heart!
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Re: Does anyone else get angry at DH/FI when he smokes...This was a situation my cousin was in YEARS ago! Her FH smoked and she kinda let is slide! Then they got married and he kept saying he was quitting! Then one day my uncle comes over and my cousins husband has a pot plant in the back yard and she didnt even realize it! | |||
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It's A Sickness! Member since 5/03 5691 total posts Wedding Date: Wed. Location: |
Re: Does anyone else get angry at DH/FI when he smokes...I would tell him in a non-confrontational way why you'd like him to stop. He might not listen right away but maybe he'll think about it and realize that it's important to you and stop. |
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Does anyone else get angry at DH/FI when he smokes... 
Posted 1/18/04 8:17 PM 
