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I don't think that the problem was the board. They have every right to have their own board. I was not on there but I am honestly not hurt. I am also not upset that they have a group. I think its great that girls can get that close. I don't know what was said but I honestly say who care.... In a few years most of use will not even be on here anymore and will have our husbands and hopefully babies and this will be funny.

I think that this site was meant for girls to help each other but some people insist to be nasty on here and that is were the problem lies. Its a shame some people do not know the basic teachings for when we were children "If you have nothing nice to say, do not say anything at all". This is a support system and honestly 50% of the time I do not feel supported and that is why I hardly come on here anymore.

One last thing.... I am sorry for the girls who spent ALOT of time planning the shower its just not right....

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holy shiit see what happens when i work late. i miss everything.

damn

someone hook me up

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Thank you for the explanation, since I got my new jobs a few months ago, I cant come on the boards during the workday so I always feel like I miss everything. I also feel like I hardly know any of the new ladies on here....I miss so much all the time! So thank you for clearing this up

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Thank you for the explanation, since I got my new jobs a few months ago, I cant come on the boards during the workday so I always feel like I miss everything. I also feel like I hardly know any of the new ladies on here....I miss so much all the time! So thank you for clearing this up

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WOW who would of thought that chatting about whats supposed to be one of the most exciting times in our lives would lead to so much drama. We are all adults here so let's play nice right, its all about helping each other out. There should be no reason to vent about personal things here, thats what FM is for. I mean if its that critical just email/call each other personally, if you feel that close to each other anyway. Good Luck to everyone I appericiate all the advise and ideas from all my 09ers.

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I just got back from my vacation excited to catch up on the shower and all things LIW and I come home to find this. I cannot even begin to explain how disappointed I am - we are all adults here who should be excited about this once in a lifetime event we are all planning. I used to think other boards had more drama but I think our year put us right over the top. This is very sad...

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Posted by LegoBride

I just got back from my vacation excited to catch up on the shower and all things LIW and I come home to find this. I cannot even begin to explain how disappointed I am - we are all adults here who should be excited about this once in a lifetime event we are all planning. I used to think other boards had more drama but I think our year put us right over the top. This is very sad...

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Posted by LegoBride

I just got back from my vacation excited to catch up on the shower and all things LIW and I come home to find this. I cannot even begin to explain how disappointed I am - we are all adults here who should be excited about this once in a lifetime event we are all planning. I used to think other boards had more drama but I think our year put us right over the top. This is very sad...

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I agree... and if I was Michelle I would not return all of your money! Do you all realize she is going to be out of hundreds of dollars! And all the time she already wasted.

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Posted by LegoBride

I just got back from my vacation excited to catch up on the shower and all things LIW and I come home to find this. I cannot even begin to explain how disappointed I am - we are all adults here who should be excited about this once in a lifetime event we are all planning. I used to think other boards had more drama but I think our year put us right over the top. This is very sad...

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I agree... and if I was Michelle I would not return all of your money! Do you all realize she is going to be out of hundreds of dollars! And all the time she already wasted.

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I don't think there was anything wrong with starting another board IF they wanted to get away from drama and just talk about their weddings amongst themselves. In life theres always some people we will clique with more than others so if they all got along with eachother and did have a clique there is nothing wrong with that. Just like other girls on LIW feel closer to eachother and become friends. You cant get mad about that part because everyone is different and you wont always get along with everyone you meet, there are a few people you meet that you hit it off with, so JUST about that, the girls did nothing wrong.

BUT what makes no sense is to start a "drama free zone" board but meanwhile most of it is talking sh*t behind others back, linking posts from LIW that are about drama lol and then discussing that and infact even making one thread all about any drama that the girls see on LIW to post it on there, and will also be good since some might not be on when the drama happens on LIW, so this way they can read it too. If the point was to get away from the drama then why was it always talked about. Well because the point was that on LIW when there was drama they bumped heads with another group of girls on here, so instead of having to do that they can talk with others who feel the same way as them who wont disagree with them. Some people have a problem with others disagreeing with them and can't take it. So it wasn't really to get away from drama but to get away from other girls who are very vocal and will tell them how they feel. One person who was talked alot about was MAZZ, she is very outspoken and tells it like it is, like many girls on here sometimes i might disagree with something she says, but we all dont agree with everything posted on here. But one thing is that you know how she feels and will tell it to you in a thread instead of acting nice and turning around talking BS about the person. So even if its a situation i might disagree with her about, i can respect that alot more about a person. I have disagreed with her in posts before but you just say your side and thats it. And like with others that i have disagreed with, i said what i had to say and guess what, when you say what you have to say and put it out there in the open you get over it right away lol, its when you keep it to yourself that you hold a grudge. Then when i see her and others in a post, i can talk to them like normal and I dont care about what happened in the past, we disagreed WHO CARES!!! i think thats the problem with LIW, others get mad if you disagree with them and they dont tell you personally how upset it got them and then they hold this grudge lol, its a MB with ALL women so guess what it will happen. When in life have you agreed with everything that everyone you ever came in contact with ever said. Not even your loved ones and closest friends.

The other board said they didnt like how some on here were nasty, rude and negative all the time. But then to turn around and make a board where they made alot of nasty, rude and negative remarks didn't make sense to me at all. They were doing exactly what they said they hated what others did on here, so really it was no different, they just had a board where nobody disagreed with them. If it was all about planning and them talking about things in their lives then it wouldn't have been a problem at all. I have been reading that other board for about 2 weeks or so, i did read and remember alot of things that were said. Not everybody said mean things but alot did, i think it was newer ppl who were invited that didn't participate much in talking sh*t.

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well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!

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Posted by tinadansr

well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!

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Posted by tinadansr

well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!

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i am sorry i think they dont know how to answer that because there is no good explanation. Just don't let it get to you, which is hard to do i know. I do remember alot of the things said about you and it was wrong and very unnecessary

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Thank you denise... Yes, we have agreed to disagree in the past and you know for a fact i have nothing against you b/c we've even Fmed back n forth recently with no probs... You forgive and forget, but making another board like that one, cannot be forgiven... And I've let those people know that... Me & you are very outspoken on the boards... Some people either dont like that or expect everyone to like everything they post... Its just not gonna happen..

And to the person who seems to keep defending michelle on the whole money thing... Why the hell should she be allowed to "keep" the money??? Shes not losing out on any money... I'm sure she can get the deposit back...

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Posted by tinadansr

well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!

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i am sorry i think they dont know how to answer that because there is no good explanation. Just don't let it get to you, which is hard to do i know. I do remember alot of the things said about you and it was wrong and very unnecessary

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My stomach turned when I read what they said about you Tina. What bother me the most is the same people who said those nasty were the same one's that said how beautiful the dress you just purchased was. I have never seen anything so petty in my life.

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Posted by tinadansr

well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!

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i am sorry i think they dont know how to answer that because there is no good explanation. Just don't let it get to you, which is hard to do i know. I do remember alot of the things said about you and it was wrong and very unnecessary

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My stomach turned when I read what they said about you Tina. What bother me the most is the same people who said those nasty were the same one's that said how beautiful the dress you just purchased was. I have never seen anything so petty in my life.

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Thank you denise... Yes, we have agreed to disagree in the past and you know for a fact i have nothing against you b/c we've even Fmed back n forth recently with no probs... You forgive and forget, but making another board like that one, cannot be forgiven... And I've let those people know that... Me & you are very outspoken on the boards... Some people either dont like that or expect everyone to like everything they post... Its just not gonna happen..

And to the person who seems to keep defending michelle on the whole money thing... Why the hell should she be allowed to "keep" the money??? Shes not losing out on any money... I'm sure she can get the deposit back...

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Thank you denise... Yes, we have agreed to disagree in the past and you know for a fact i have nothing against you b/c we've even Fmed back n forth recently with no probs... You forgive and forget, but making another board like that one, cannot be forgiven... And I've let those people know that... Me & you are very outspoken on the boards... Some people either dont like that or expect everyone to like everything they post... Its just not gonna happen..

And to the person who seems to keep defending michelle on the whole money thing... Why the hell should she be allowed to "keep" the money??? Shes not losing out on any money... I'm sure she can get the deposit back...

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i think it would be weird with so many women if we didnt disagree once in a while then you would know that EVERYBODY was being fake

If someone paid for the shower and now its cancelled then they should get their money back, i dont see why one person should get to keep that money.

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Thank you denise... Yes, we have agreed to disagree in the past and you know for a fact i have nothing against you b/c we've even Fmed back n forth recently with no probs... You forgive and forget, but making another board like that one, cannot be forgiven... And I've let those people know that... Me & you are very outspoken on the boards... Some people either dont like that or expect everyone to like everything they post... Its just not gonna happen..

And to the person who seems to keep defending michelle on the whole money thing... Why the hell should she be allowed to "keep" the money??? Shes not losing out on any money... I'm sure she can get the deposit back...

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Posted by tinadansr

well said Denise! Don't forget the malicious comments too I fm'd some of the girls that responded to or made comments about me and I asked them why they did it and they had no explanation!!

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i am sorry i think they dont know how to answer that because there is no good explanation. Just don't let it get to you, which is hard to do i know. I do remember alot of the things said about you and it was wrong and very unnecessary

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My stomach turned when I read what they said about you Tina. What bother me the most is the same people who said those nasty were the same one's that said how beautiful the dress you just purchased was. I have never seen anything so petty in my life.

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oh i didnt know that, i didnt see they were saying nice things on here. See that is exactly why i will always appreciate someone who can tell it to me straight up or not say anything at all. I'd rather know how somebody feels rather than have someone nice to my face, me liking the person and then find out they talk behind your back and say horrible things.

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Posted by egem523

Michelle is doing the right thing by returning the money. Why should the other ladies lose $30 when a shower was being selfishly organized by the DFZ . Personally in my opinion I would only go to a shower that LIW sponsored. I had a feeling if we cooridnated this ourselves it would become messy. Asking donations from LIW vendors and now we are canceling them may reflect negative on us and they may complain to Ron and Liz and be hestiant to contribute in the future.-

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Thank you denise... Yes, we have agreed to disagree in the past and you know for a fact i have nothing against you b/c we've even Fmed back n forth recently with no probs... You forgive and forget, but making another board like that one, cannot be forgiven... And I've let those people know that... Me & you are very outspoken on the boards... Some people either dont like that or expect everyone to like everything they post... Its just not gonna happen..

And to the person who seems to keep defending michelle on the whole money thing... Why the hell should she be allowed to "keep" the money??? Shes not losing out on any money... I'm sure she can get the deposit back...

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Michelle is doing the right thing by returning the money. Why should the other ladies lose $30 when a shower was being selfishly organized by the DFZ . Personally in my opinion I would only go to a shower that LIW sponsored. I had a feeling if we cooridnated this ourselves it would become messy. Asking donations from LIW vendors and now we are canceling them may reflect negative on us and they may complain to Ron and Liz and be hestiant to contribute in the future.-

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Posted by egem523

Michelle is doing the right thing by returning the money. Why should the other ladies lose $30 when a shower was being selfishly organized by the DFZ . Personally in my opinion I would only go to a shower that LIW sponsored. I had a feeling if we cooridnated this ourselves it would become messy. Asking donations from LIW vendors and now we are canceling them may reflect negative on us and they may complain to Ron and Liz and be hestiant to contribute in the future.-

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Its a shame that it gets ruined for the bunch... Hopefully we could postpone it and the vendors still be okay with it... I mean its a chance for them to show off their work and obtain potential clients so I'd hope they;d still be onboard with the idea

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Hey 09'ers, I have no idea what's going on (too lazy to read but probably will) but wanna wish all the hot mamas Happy Mother's Day to them and all the hot mamas in their life! HOW U DOIN!










FH & I plan on joining the hot mama's club next year on HM! HOW U DOIN! BOOMCHICAWAWA

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I contacted a bunch of vendors myself...so hopefully they wont mind if we change the date

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