Help!!!! Honeymoon Suites & Booking out-of-town Guests

Hello oh so helpful brides to be and others!

I need help! Chip and I are trying to find a honeymoon suite that is reasonable on LI. We plan on inviting people back to our room after the wedding, so it needs to be big! Any suggestions? We have sen a few, but none that we really like.

Also, when booking rooms for out of town guests, do we book a hotel closer to the church, or closer to the reception site? Some are not familiar with LI, and although there will be direction cards, I want to insure their accessibility and safety!!