Totally random unrelated to anything question (and its long) but want some opinions! UPDATE IN ORIGINAL POST!

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Posted by Becca2010


ETA: Just read your reveal, with the way your life went, I'm glad nothing came of it because we may never have met you!!!

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agreed. i would NOT find him on FB tho!

sometimes happy memories are enough. no need to dig any deeper

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Posted by Becca2010

It depends on Jack.

He seems like a really sweet guy and a good friend to both parties.

If he's a genuine guy and had feelings for Anna, then he kept them to himself for the sake of his friend.

If he's not as genuine/nice, he doesn't like her and is JUST a good friend.
A guy that isn't so genuine would hit on her, if not immediately, then not too long after the breakup.

From your story, it seems like he's a very sweet guy and he probably does/did like her.

ETA: Just read your reveal, with the way your life went, I'm glad nothing came of it because we may never have met you!!!

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a) he WAS the sweetest, nicest person. a really good guy. the rare kind!

b) awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww Becca I looove you!!!

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Posted by MerSaysEh

i have him on facebook, he added me years and years ago but we never really talk. i want to send him a message just to say hi but if there were feelings there is that weird?

i kinda wanna (now that i have the safety of being married) tell him like dude i so had a thing for you, just to get it out in the open ya know?

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it was a long time ago ... you're both moved on. i'd feel it out first with a 'plain' hello and if it goes well, you could tell him you used to crush on him.

i once told a friend that i used to like him .... his reaction was 'eww, you're like a sister to me!'

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

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Posted by MerSaysEh

i have him on facebook, he added me years and years ago but we never really talk. i want to send him a message just to say hi but if there were feelings there is that weird?

i kinda wanna (now that i have the safety of being married) tell him like dude i so had a thing for you, just to get it out in the open ya know?

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it was a long time ago ... you're both moved on. i'd feel it out first with a 'plain' hello and if it goes well, you could tell him you used to crush on him.

i once told a friend that i used to like him .... his reaction was 'eww, you're like a sister to me!'

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no of course i wouldn't open with 'hey i liked you a lot' haha i'd be like 'i hear you met my SIL, hope all is well with you' type thing!

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Posted by MerSaysEh

i kinda wanna (now that i have the safety of being married) tell him like dude i so had a thing for you, just to get it out in the open ya know?

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BAD MOVE! JMO

dont do it...some things are better left off the way they are...

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Posted by CarolAnn721

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Posted by MerSaysEh

i kinda wanna (now that i have the safety of being married) tell him like dude i so had a thing for you, just to get it out in the open ya know?

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BAD MOVE! JMO

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yeah, i don't think i actually will. i don't have your balls haha but its fun to remember stories like this from what feels like a past life.

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Posted by little j

does this mean there is another canadian amongst us?????

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no no my bro and SIL live in toronto, the guy and my SIL go to med school in toronto. don't worry, we aren't invading you or anything

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Posted by MerSaysEh

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Posted by little j

does this mean there is another canadian amongst us?????

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no no my bro and SIL live in toronto, the guy and my SIL go to med school in toronto. don't worry, we aren't invading you or anything

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this actually brings me to another topic....hold please while i post

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Posted by MerSaysEh

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Posted by CarolAnn721

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Posted by MerSaysEh

i kinda wanna (now that i have the safety of being married) tell him like dude i so had a thing for you, just to get it out in the open ya know?

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BAD MOVE! JMO

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yeah, i don't think i actually will. i don't have your balls haha but its fun to remember stories like this from what feels like a past life.

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It is fun to remember these things, but if you take a walk down that road, it may backfire.... He could contact you and there is a chance that a flood of young emotions can reappear...You tell him u used to have a crush, he tells you the same...than you guys continue chatting... What if your crush comes back??? Or he might just tell you he is gay. I don't know.

By the way, to continue our 'keeping kosher' convo we had at the NWL. I have a vertebre.... Can you eat me???

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Posted by CarolAnn721

By the way, to continue our 'keeping kosher' convo we had at the NWL. I have a vertebre.... Can you eat me???

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Not with milk!

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Posted by CarolAnn721

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Posted by MerSaysEh

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Posted by CarolAnn721

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Posted by MerSaysEh

i kinda wanna (now that i have the safety of being married) tell him like dude i so had a thing for you, just to get it out in the open ya know?

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BAD MOVE! JMO

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yeah, i don't think i actually will. i don't have your balls haha but its fun to remember stories like this from what feels like a past life.

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It is fun to remember these things, but if you take a walk down that road, it may backfire.... He could contact you and there is a chance that a flood of young emotions can reappear...You tell him u used to have a crush, he tells you the same...than you guys continue chatting... What if your crush comes back??? Or he might just tell you he is gay. I don't know.

By the way, to continue our 'keeping kosher' convo we had at the NWL. I have a vertebre.... Can you eat me???

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a) yes, could be a bad road to go down and actually does relate to ANOTHER convo we had sunday! i'm not following my own advice!

b). yes, yes i can.

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Posted by latinaj

dont do it...some things are better left off the way they are...

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i agree, who knows what kind of doors will open up with that. if it was me i was just tell your sil (if she bumps into him again) to tell him you say hi and hope all is well. and leave it at that.

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Posted by MerSaysEh

a) yes, could be a bad road to go down and actually does relate to ANOTHER convo we had sunday! i'm not following my own advice!

b). yes, yes i can.

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a) EXACTLY!!! Respect, morals, etc... blah blah blah

b) YAY!!! Are you busy on sukkit????