XOXO

JBC12510 Posted: Mar 31, 2011 09:48 AM

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Thanks girls! I'll keep you posted on any more details if I ever get them!

2010BTB Posted: Mar 31, 2011 09:50 AM

Re: DH's Job

I would read into it the exact same way you are...that might not be very comforting. I guess if that question was posed to me or my DH the answer would be it depends on a lot of things. I couldn't say yes or no without knowing all the details.

JBC12510 Posted: Mar 31, 2011 09:52 AM

Re: DH's Job

urgh, yeah I always read into things...no matter what it is.

he asked me how I felt about moving and I was too drunk (thanks Sangria) to participate in the conversation.

little j Posted: Mar 31, 2011 09:52 AM

Re: DH's Job

wow that is exciting

i would probably respond with if 'right position means a lot more money, a good neighborhood, an ability for my wife to find work, etc, then yes....but it depends the circumstance. i am very much interested in learning more'

something like that

but you guys need to talk about it. if you are NY-ers and vow to NEVER leave....then the simple answer is probably 'no, we have too much invested here (e.g, family, friends, stable? jobs, etc)'

but it sounds like it might be exciting

would you move?

little j Posted: Mar 31, 2011 09:53 AM

Re: DH's Job

Posted by JBC12510

urgh, yeah I always read into things...no matter what it is.

he asked me how I felt about moving and I was too drunk (thanks Sangria) to participate in the conversation.

wow. what a great time to bring up a serious conversation

AwaitingAugust Posted: Mar 31, 2011 09:54 AM

Re: DH's Job

sounds like his boss will be giving him an option to move ... so you can figure out what you want to do once you know the actual details

i wouldn't worry about being FORCED to move anywhere

AngnShaun Posted: Mar 31, 2011 09:57 AM

Re: DH's Job

im sorry but how else are you supposed to read into it... its not as if its subtle

Linzee636 Posted: Mar 31, 2011 09:58 AM

Re: DH's Job

i think it sounds like there could be an option put out on the table for your DH... if he interested. I agree that it doesn't sound like he would be forced to move.

When my DH got his promotion at his company, they offered him a spot on the travel sales team to Canada because they knew it was a great opportunity for him and could potentially help him grow faster. He didn't have to take it - he could've stayed on a local sales team in NY - but we both agreed that if he did it for a little while, it could be a big help (hopefully more $$) in the long run.

good luck!

2010BTB Posted: Mar 31, 2011 10:07 AM

Re: DH's Job

Definitely let us know when he talks to his boss. I'm quite interested to see what the thought process was. I still don't get why someone would pose that questions without including more details.