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OFFICIAL Indian 'Desi' Wedding Thread

Original post by riniko

Hi all,

I have had the opportunity to meet a handful of LIW South Asian (Indian) brides as well as non-Indians marrying Indians through LIW.

Everyone can participate in the thread but some of us felt it would be helpful to share information to fellow Indian (or Desi) brides out there.

If you all are for it, we can post info that will help each other on it. Like DJs, makeup artists, clothing resources, etc etc.

Take care!

GtBride Posted:

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aww i have the best FH ever

He got me two dozen rainbow roses
They are so beautiful!

Get this he got my sister tulips for V-day! My sister is away for college and she doesn't have a bf so he got her flowers.
Dulhan Posted:

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Posted by AR31


Posted by Dulhan

are u thinking hydrangeas??
http://images.jupiterimages.com/common/detail/57/22/23482257.jpg



that's it!!!

thanks soooo much!!!




ur welcome!! those are really pretty!
I'm not really worrying about flowers..I will have my decorator just take care of that.. as long as it looks beautiful :)
Dulhan Posted:

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awww how sweet!!!
Soon2bMrsRP Posted:

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Posted by GtBride

aww i have the best FH ever

He got me two dozen rainbow roses
They are so beautiful!

Get this he got my sister tulips for V-day! My sister is away for college and she doesn't have a bf so he got her flowers.



That is so sweet!!!!
AR31 Posted:

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That's wonderful!!

RGV07 Posted:

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that so sweet!!!!

GtBride Posted:

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For the girls who are married ladies, what do you call your FMIL?

leena07 Posted:

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i call her mom

GtBride Posted:

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I will be living with my IL's for a couple of months. What should i call them? For the past 5 yrs i managed to not call them anything! I always found ways around it. I feel weird calling them mom and dad but i feel like its the right thing to do.

leena07 Posted:

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i know how you feel. i felt weird about it also.. but i got used to it. you will to dont worry!

Dulhan Posted:

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Posted by GtBride

I will be living with my IL's for a couple of months. What should i call them? For the past 5 yrs i managed to not call them anything! I always found ways around it. I feel weird calling them mom and dad but i feel like its the right thing to do.



haha how did you manage that?? lol I call mine aunty and uncle..sometimes mom and dad slips out lol i'll have to get used to it as well
GtBride Posted:

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FH and FIL's live in Cali. I will be moving there after the wedding. So when i usually go visit them they are always together so i wouldn't have to use aunty/uncle or mom/dad. I guess the best thing to do is call them mom and dad. They have no daughters so i guess i should be nice

Soon2bMrsRP Posted:

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I know - it feels so weird to call them mom and dad - but same issue here - they have no daughters and FH is only son - I call them aunti and uncle now as well - it's going to be quite a transition to call them mom and dad - dreading the first time b/c it's going to be sooo awkward
RGV07 Posted:

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i call my MIL (mom,) even when we were dating i was calling her mom!

AR31 Posted:

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Posted by GtBride

FH and FIL's live in Cali. I will be moving there after the wedding. So when i usually go visit them they are always together so i wouldn't have to use aunty/uncle or mom/dad. I guess the best thing to do is call them mom and dad. They have no daughters so i guess i should be nice




same here.. no daughters.. i guess it would be nice..
GtBride Posted:

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I guess its Mom/Dad. It will be weird but i guess i have to do it! I will be the first Daughter in law too.

AR31 Posted:

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o yeah.. well you know my situation already Gt!

I will be the third DIL.. so the precedent was set by the first one.. the second is a @#%#&@^#*

AR31 Posted:

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i have to post this..

i was terribly sick for the past few days.. my darling FH came by to visit on Tuesday in that terrible weather just to be with me.. and drove back in that mess at night.. only for Wedensday to happen..

my dad went to work and passed out downtown.. the cops and the emt rushed him to downtown.. and called me enroute.. my brother had a late class, i was home sick but that didn't matter at that point.. my mom got home and all three of us rushed into the city.. i called FH in between and he was off and he came rushing to the hospital.. when we got there, they didn't do anything to my dad, he was in the hospital robe, cold and clammy and damn people just standing there and yapping..

anyway long story short.. FH and mom saved the day... my dad is ok, he's home resting and my mom's home too.. i'm back at work.. and my FH is my hero.. i just adore him to pieces!!

Happy Valentine's day ladies..
Soon2bMrsRP Posted:

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Aww - i'm glad everything's ok with your dad - and FH is really acting his part - which is great!! It's so important that he comes through in the rough times - so you and your family know for sure you can count on him!

RGV07 Posted:

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Posted by AR31

i have to post this..

i was terribly sick for the past few days.. my darling FH came by to visit on Tuesday in that terrible weather just to be with me.. and drove back in that mess at night.. only for Wedensday to happen..

my dad went to work and passed out downtown.. the cops and the emt rushed him to downtown.. and called me enroute.. my brother had a late class, i was home sick but that didn't matter at that point.. my mom got home and all three of us rushed into the city.. i called FH in between and he was off and he came rushing to the hospital.. when we got there, they didn't do anything to my dad, he was in the hospital robe, cold and clammy and damn people just standing there and yapping..

anyway long story short.. FH and mom saved the day... my dad is ok, he's home resting and my mom's home too.. i'm back at work.. and my FH is my hero.. i just adore him to pieces!!

Happy Valentine's day ladies..

great that your dad was ok !!!

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