On May 3, 2011, Vinny and I had dinner plans to go out. He had told me earlier that he had taken the day off because the person watching his grandma because the aide didn't show up for the day or so he said! As usual, I got tied up at work, and Vinny was at home texting me to find out when I was getting back. It wasn't unusual for me to get stuck working on something on a Tuesday night, so I didn't understand what the big deal was. After a few texts, I could tell that he was getting antsy,