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A Word of advice!

avesur Posted:

A Word of advice!

Let me begin by saying that I am very happy with the service we got at the Westbury Manor at the day of our wedding; we had a wonderful wedding day, and the attention was just great. However, we did a silver coin exchange during our ceremony, and they dissapeared after it They were my father's gift, and although might not be too valuable money wise (even they are true silver and old), they were part of our wedding ceremony, and I am very sad that are gone .

Well, after ruling out that the Rev. had them for us, asked our families, etc we kept trying to get an answer from the WM ... today we did get it: they are not responsable for things left outside, the family should had pick them up (which nobody told us). In their own words, it could have been anyone from our own guests, to the 200 guests of the party in the hall in the 1st floor, or anybody else. The strange thing, is that the silver tray where they were on was returned to me, as well as the rings' case, the baskets with the programs, the little basket for the coin bearer ... everything showed up but the coins.

So, my word of advice for you oncoming brides, is that if during your ceremony you are using anything that is of value to you (monetary or sentimental) do not asume that someone from the hall or church is going to take care of that (although to an extent it is their job). Make sure that a friend or relative is encharge of picking such things up. That way you won't have a sad/uncomfortable memory of your wedding day.

best of lucks!

Elena
Jen_n_Dale Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear that.

bethsiar Posted:

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That is so sad.

tanbride Posted:

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I am a WM bride in Sept - thanks for the tip especially since my FI is Filipino and we are exchanging coins too!

edited to say: I would love to see your review of the WM (food, service, etc) as well as your other vendors - did you post one?
HearzBellz Posted:

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That is really good advice! I always try to tell my girls to make sure that at least two people should share the responsibility of collecting the personal items. 99.9% of the time if it is left in a hall it is gone.


I am so sorry that your valuables were not returned to you
aliciahelene Posted:

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Thats very sad that happened to you! Thankyou for the post though!

avesur Posted:

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Thank you girls! Yes, it is very sad!

Especially because it is hard to find who did it. I don't think that any of our guests would do such pity thing, nor any of the high rank staff of the WM ... I just wished it hadn't had happened! Someone cleared up the altar, and returned everything but the coins. I guess they can't track who this person was.

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