So remember my BM issue yesterday????

Well I just spoke to her. All is well, but at least now she knows I heard her.

I basically said, 'yea when I called you the other day, I'm not sure you know but you answered the phone! I was screaming your name, but you didn't hear me.....I heard you talking to the guy about the dress, and how it's red, long, sweetheart, and i'm italian....what did that have to do with anything????'

She said she was trying to explain how I wanted a long elegant, formal look and how it's going to be a big wedding. I accepted it for what it was worth, and that was it. I definitely think she was partially trying to cover herself up, but she knows that I heard her, and that's all I wanted.

Whatever, at least it's done and I can move on

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Posted by Lsorrent

Well I just spoke to her. All is well, but at least now she knows I heard her.

I basically said, 'yea when I called you the other day, I'm not sure you know but you answered the phone! I was screaming your name, but you didn't hear me.....I heard you talking to the guy about the dress, and how it's red, long, sweetheart, and i'm italian....what did that have to do with anything????'

She said she was trying to explain how I wanted a long elegant, formal look and how it's going to be a big wedding. I accepted it for what it was worth, and that was it. I definitely think she was partially trying to cover herself up, but she knows that I heard her, and that's all I wanted.

Whatever, at least it's done and I can move on

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yeah that doesnt really explain what she did or why she said that... lol... all she did was repeat herself... but like you said, you got it out there and thats that...

im glad you called her out on it!

hope you have no more problems with her

Alright, at least we know she feels sheepish and probably embarrassed. I think it's great that you said something! I'm not sure if I would have been able to. Big thumbs up for that!

It's great that you cleared the air though. I'm sure you feel a lot better!

I'm glad that you were able to have your say - obviously she's embarassed and trying to cover her @ss, but at least now SHE knows that you know.

Maybe you can make a joke about it with her bm gift? Like give her a small Italian flag or something to lighten up the mood?

its good you said something. she probably feels like an idiot that you overheard. hopefully everything works out with her