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Which Memorial Poem do you Like Best???? Please Answer!!

Boop2704 Posted:

Which Memorial Poem do you Like Best???? Please Answer!!

I have been dreading the moment I had to pick a poem in memorian of my brother for our wedding programs. I am at that point though and As I am very upset and in tears here, I need you honest help in picking the best, most sweetest poem for my brother. I hurts me so bad right now to have to be writing that I am looking for a memorial poem for him, when he should be here, standing up on that alter with me next week. I have tried for the past year of planning to avoid this very moment as it is bringing all the past back to reality right now. So, please, give me you honest opinions on any of these poems. And if you have any others please post them. Thank you!!



#1 Family Chain

We little knew that morning,
God was going to call your name,
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.

It broke our hearts to lose you,
You did not go alone.
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.

You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.

Our family chain is broken,
and nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.



# 2 In Our Hearts
(adapted by Jean Gifford)

We thought of you with love today.
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday.
And days before that too.
We think of you in silence.
We remember how you look.
Now all we have is memories.
And your pictures in our book.
Your memory is out keepsake.
With which we'll never part.
God has you in his keeping.
We have you in our heart..



#3 Angels

When you were born, an angel smiled,

As you became a child, an angel sat on your shoulder

When you became an adult, an angel held your hand

As you grew old, an angel walked down the road with you,

And, when you died, another angel got their wings.

--Unknown


#4 In Loving Memory

Although we can't see you
We know you are here
Smiling down, watching over us
As we say 'I DO'
Forever in our hearts
Forever in our lives
And so we say our vows
In loving memory of you.




franksbride Posted:

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Oh Jaime...I'm so sorry you have to do this.

I didn't vote yet and I'm torn between #2 and #4. I liked them all, but it's something about these two that really touched me.

Whatever one you choose...it's so sweet of you to honor your brother like that.
gaby25 Posted:

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well, I chose 4 but I really like 3 also. I chose 4 because it represents
the day but 3 is so beautiful. Sorry I couldn't be of much help but maybe
it will help in narrowing them down. I am very sorry for your loss

edit: I am so sorry but I meant #2, not #3. I liked 2 and 4 SORRY!!!
KathleenG Posted:

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First of all, every poem is beautiful in its own way!!! I voted for #4 because it stresses how much he is there with you on your wedding day!! I think that is a wonderful memorial to him!!! I am so sorry for your loss, I will be having to do something similar in a few months, I know how painful it must be!!!
tourist Posted:

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I chose the 4th one. I really like the last line.

oakslady Posted:

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number 4 is my vote too - i will be having to do the same thing for my sister and i have been totally dreding having to pick something out

i'm sorry hon - try to think of him smiling on you that is what i do it really helps
RedHead Posted:

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i like really like 1 and 4. But i think 1 is a little too sad.
Good Luck
itsbouttime Posted:

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i like #2 & #4 but if i had to choose one it would be #4.

to you!!!!
mrsmeri1104 Posted:

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I chose #4 it really touched me..... Thank you so much for sharing something so personal I really wanted to do something like that at our wedding for my FMIL she just passed (unexpectantly) a week before Christmas.

Thanks again.
SReidy Posted:

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I think all of them are really beautiful. I agree that #1 is too sad for your wedding though. I think #4 is the best choice IMO.
Boop2704 Posted:

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Thank you all. I decided on #4. I think it fits the day very well and honors my brother by saying our vows in his name.

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