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well Today I was SUPPOSE to pick up my dress!!!!! We had the rehersal and fought with FMIL!!!!

june262004 Posted:

well Today I was SUPPOSE to pick up my dress!!!!! We had the rehersal and fought with FMIL!!!!

MY DRESS!
Ok I am getting married on Saturday! Went today to pick up my dress! The lady comes out and says 'what is ure last name?' So we tell her and she keeps saying it wrong finally my FSIL freaks out and screams it and spells it. They come back and tell me 'we can't find ure dress' Im like what go look again I am getting married on Saturday IT BETTER BE THERE!!!!! They go come back like 5 minutes lady with my dress in hand and say 'Oh ure dress isn't ready' WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They go 'you had an appt. on 6/17' i honestly don't remember that. But I do remember them telling me come back to pick it up and I know that I called on tuesday and they told me my dress would be ready! How if I was suppose to pick it up on the 17 and it is now the 24 is it not ready????? So I have togo back tomorrow at 3:00 to pick it up!

MY FMIL DRESS!
My Bridesmaids are wearing Lilac dresses. My FMIL told my FH i am going to wear a lilac dress. He asked her not to. He told her she asked her own mother not to wear lilac adn she isnt. It would really upset her if u wear a lilac dress! So she tells us I bought a periwinkle dress whatever. Yesterday my FSIL calls me up and says my mom just showed me her dress. Its LILAC. WHATTT!!!!! its the same dress as her peri dress but in Lilac. And when she said I thought Kristin asked u not to wear lilac she laughed and said what are they going to do that day make me leave??? Is she for REAL! today she is telling my FSIL I am losing a son. Ok no joke she moved to Florida 3 years ago. just up and left left her husband here (yup they are still married but she lives here) and her kids.

TONIGHT AT CHURCH WITH MY FMIL!!!
Mike is at the altar so he misses this whole thing. We line everyone up at the back of the church. first Mikes Granparents. then his parents then the bridesmaids. All of a sudden I see my cousin standing there alone no partner I said whats going on. She goes look. Grandma is being escorted by grandpa and mikes brother who is suppose to be walking with my cousin. I was like ummmmm whats going on. My FMIL turns around and says to me She needs to escorts! i was like ummm Why? I don't want pete to have to walk back here. the granparents can walk together. She just kept like yelling and rolling her eyes she needs 2 ESCORTS!!!! I bet you anything the day of she makes them do it. NOW I CAN UNDERSTAND IF SHE WAS OLD AND COULDNT WALK BUT SHE ISNT AND SHE WALK FINE! Then I said I am walking down the Aisle with my mom and dad. FMIL turns around and says ' what your mother can walk you down the aisle' With such an attitude. I was like 'WHAT I CAN DO WHATEVER I WANT' !!! Then I felt bad that I was so mean to her. But She just has such a tude she definetly hates me my MOH turned to me at church and said can she have a bigger puss on her face and she keeps giving you dirty looks!!!!!! What is her PROBLEM!

But we had a nice dinner at my FIL's house with Hawaiian Luau theme.
steph4777 Posted:

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So sorry that you are having issue with your dresses and FMIL. Just think it will be all over soon. And you guys will be away from all the madness on your honeymoon.
regi Posted:

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there are always a few bumps right before. But, take a deep breath, smile and go get married tomorrow. You are going to look so beautiful. Enjoy it all!!
Summerbride04 Posted:

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I hope everything works out for you in the end. Things usually do. Best of luck to you!
kissy27 Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear about your dress issue & your FMIL. It is your day & don't let her say a darn thing! The day of the wedding, just make sure you keep your calm...Don't let her ruin your day one bit! Good luck this weekend. What time is your church tomorrow???

Happybride2005 Posted:

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Don't let your FMIL run your special day.

JZNCK Posted:

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I'm sorry girl!!! Everything will work out... I can't believe your getting married TOMORROW!!!!!!!! YAY!! TRY to enjoy your day and dno't let your FMIL or anyonelse take this away from you. It's going to be a mazing, and all of this bad stuff will be put behind you.. GOOD LUCK.. can't wait to hear all about it...

vhollo01 Posted:

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I think there is no way around the FMIL issue. I had a great relationship before we got engaged...... once I got the ring, she started acting like a mental patient. I just avoid them - just ignore yours and enjoy the day

CaCRmr Posted:

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WOW! I wish you a beautiful day for tomorrow! Everything will be perfect. Don't stress
paulandles912 Posted:

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I'm sorry you've gone through so much drama before your wedding. I hope everything goes smoothly when you pick up your dress, and don't stress out about the rest of what's going on.

Enjoy your special day!
jennyhet Posted:

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Don't let her get to you--It is going to be a wonderful day and don't let anyone spoil that for you!!
kgermano Posted:

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OMG...I'm so sorry. Why is everyone crazy at a wedding, I don't get it. Perfectly rational sane people go kookoo. Good luck with your dress, I'm sure it will come in fine. Soon you'll be on your honeymoon and won't have to worry about anymore wedding drama!
Jax430 Posted:

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OMG, Kristin, I'm so sorry you're dealing with all of this unnecessary stress now. I hope everything works out for you. As far as FMIL, mothers seem to get extremely odd when it comes to their sons getting married. All I can tell you is what people have been telling me. On your wedding day, if something doesn't go as planned, just try to roll with it. Don't get upset over things that you can't control and try to enjoy your day as much as possible. Keep thinking of Hawaii
aimerliny Posted:

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Keep smiling...it will all work out in the end and you'll have a beautiful day!

FLaCaTaCa Posted:

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OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!!!! WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON WITH YOUR FMIL!!!!!!!!

Don't let her get to you...I KNOW it is hard to not let anyone get to you but...think of it this way in a few hrs....you'll be married and he is your's!!! HA HA!!!!!!!!!
Kriss2c Posted:

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Don't worry about her causing a scene; she will be the one that looks bad and if you take the high ground, you will truly shine.

Best wishes for your big day!!!
Vicky1706 Posted:

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That sux...she sounds like an awful person. I am sorry that you have to put up with that nonsense on your special day. She sounds like she is just acting out cause she is jealous that you are the star and she isn't! Screw her...do it your way and have a blast! Good luck!

charlotte227 Posted:

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JUNE262004

Just remember tomorrow is your day the heck with everyone else, you better enjoy yourself no matter what!!!
diamondgrlie Posted:

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OMG!!!! I am so sorry. Just breathe and get through this and enjoy your day and then it will get better.
june262004 Posted:

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THANKS GIRLS. The church starts at 2:30 and the reception starts at 7 who ever asked.

I keep saying in one more day I will be marrying my love. I just can't believe her.

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