any advice...

the only way to deal with it is to find a way not to let it bother you. Just look at these people as totally tacky and lame and feel sorry for them. NO ONES opinion of your day matters except yours. This is something i really struggled with, but once I got it, I am much happier.

Consider not going to their wedding as well. They certainly don't sound like friends.

Who does that? Inconsiderate, selfish people that don't have an original idea in their heads and cannot be happy for someone if it killed them.

A classless bafoon! Don't sweat it, their marriage won't last, it will be pouring and their DJ won't show.

Hows that?!

Oh, and they will have food poisoning on their honeymoon.

I hope this made you feel better.

I can't believe he said that. He has no class. It sounds like your wedding made him envious.

If you do go to his wedding, just remember, he can have a great wedding but it doesn't change the fact that he is a Class A jerk. And your poor friend is marrying him.

Try to remember all of the wonderful compliments people said on your wedding day and don't give this jerk another thought.