ATTENTION SHAMMA96

nycchic_24 Posted: Jan 18, 2003 02:50 PM

ATTENTION SHAMMA96

u have fm

shamma Posted: Jan 18, 2003 02:55 PM

Re: ATTENTION SHAMMA96

I responded

nycchic_24 Posted: Jan 18, 2003 02:58 PM

Re: ATTENTION SHAMMA96

you see?? thats exactly what i mean...the way you write and the positivity you put forth is absolutely wonderful. I was raised the same exact way and thats prolly why i feel a bond with you. Thank you so much for being one of the reasons i stay on this board. Your husband is very lucky and I feel that we are too on this board for getting a chance to get to know you!

shamma Posted: Jan 18, 2003 03:02 PM

Re: ATTENTION SHAMMA96

You are too much Noreen. Thanks, why wallow in negativity. There is an email that I got recently and it said to get rid of the people who are sitting in the front row of your life that are wasting time and replace them with people that are building you up. I choose to surround myself with those kinds of people. I do not have to eliminate the negative ones completely, but I can lessen my time with them. Life is too short and precious to have people who are only tearing down your spirit or beating up on you and stealing your joy and blocking your blessings, or who does not wish well for you. As my hubby would say LOVE them from a distant I am sorry you were not at the GTG so we could have met. I love meeting positive people.

nycchic_24 Posted: Jan 18, 2003 03:09 PM

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I recently was faced with removing negative people who were supposed to be good friends from my life. I wish I knew you then to help me get through that. But now that its done i realized i did the right thing. My mom always taught me about 'toxic' frienships. And I know now that she is right. Im just happy to know that there is someone else out there that thinks like me. You are great girl!

shamma Posted: Jan 18, 2003 03:11 PM

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My pleasure sweetie, this board has its good and its bad, but we take out of it what we want to keep all the other things we just by pass. Glad you could see what was going on and move on. You go girl. Not a lot of us can do that. Sometimes it takes some of us too long, whether its in man/woman relationship or woman/to woman friendships. All the best sweetie.