Babies

I Love Paolo Posted: Oct 22, 2009 03:35 PM

Babies

Yesterday I ate so much and felt so bloated, I told my DH to kiss my belly. He said 'I will kiss your belly when your pregnant.' Which got me thinking, are you and DH on the same time table in terms of making babies. If I had my choice, I would have been trying already.

LadyDuda81509 Posted: Oct 22, 2009 03:39 PM

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We are agreeing that we will def have 1 before we are 30 (we are both turning 28 this winter) and we both agree that we wanna have a house and all that, but i would have one now too if he wanted! lol as much as i know we should wait...i just think we would make it work no matter what situation we were in!

hopefully by next summer we will start trying

I Love Paolo Posted: Oct 22, 2009 03:45 PM

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We are both in our 30's and we want buy a house, etc. but I agree, you would definitely make it work, no matter the situation. We will probably start next summer as well.

Aliaxtra Posted: Oct 22, 2009 03:45 PM

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We had 2 boys before we got married
One is going to be 10 in Jan and my little guy is 2 1/2

But now i am itching for the girl..so maybe we will try for the 3rd..lol

KittyGags Posted: Oct 22, 2009 03:51 PM

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We want to take one more big trip before we try try...

Ideally I'm going to go off BC next May and with a little help from the big man upstairs, I will get preggo Sept-October ish? I want to have my summer off, lol

FinallyMrsB18 Posted: Oct 24, 2009 12:41 AM

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bun in the oven

Cassie15 Posted: Oct 24, 2009 01:08 AM

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We talked about having kids. I want to have our first baby by the time I turn 28, and DH will be 29. We want to give ourselves a good two years to travel and take care of our things before we devote our time having and taking care of a baby. My heart goes weak every time I see babies or kids. I have friends who recently had babies. They always tell me to wait until I feel ready. Once the baby comes along, there's no such thing as traveling, alone time or going out anymore. You devote 100% to your baby. And if it's not something you feel commited or ready for, this is not the time to have a baby. And I agree with their advice. You have to be mentally and emotionally prepared. And I think if you give yourself time, things will take its course naturally. For ladies who are planning to have children or a bundle of joy is on the way, congrats!!!

Tomlaur0808 Posted: Oct 24, 2009 01:49 PM

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Posted by FinallyMrsB18

bun in the oven

yea!

Tomlaur0808 Posted: Oct 24, 2009 01:49 PM

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we are currently TTC

MirabellaNYC Posted: Oct 24, 2009 03:03 PM

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We're both in agreeance that after our 1 year anniversary we'll 'stop preventing'....because we don't want to be in the predicament of TTC and being disappointed..

BUT

if by some chance we got pregnant earlier we'd consider it a blessing.

Right now I'm 30 and DH is 34, at this point by the time we have babies I'll be 32 and he'll be 36.

Funny though because we keep talking about it....

AugustBridein09 Posted: Oct 24, 2009 03:57 PM

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We are def both on the same page about not wanting kids anytime soon. We both want to wait like 8 to 10 yrs.

meara Posted: Oct 24, 2009 05:24 PM

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I would do it now if I could DH wants to wait a bit to make sure he gets a job after grad school etc. . which I know is wise but I'm going to be 37 in two weeks and feel like BABY NOOOOOOOOWW!! damn I'm old

twoifbysea Posted: Oct 24, 2009 07:10 PM

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I'm 29 and DH is 35, so time is sort of an issue, however I'd be happy waiting a few more years. But if I got pregnant now we'd be soooooo excited, and we'd adjust (of course).

meli722 Posted: Oct 24, 2009 07:37 PM

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september 2010 will be our conception month
i gave birth in August with my daughter and i hated being preggo in the summer, i was HOT 24/7, so i want to get preggo at a time where ill give birth before the summer hopefully!!

PROBM Posted: Oct 25, 2009 09:10 PM

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we r letting nature take its course but not really trying per se bc my brother is getting married in napa in june and i really would like to be there

JennyAPH Posted: Oct 25, 2009 09:15 PM

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DH keeps saying hes going to switch out my BC with sugar pills...so he reallllly wants one now. But we both decided that in a year we will start trying...but of course if something happened earlier we would both be thrilled

MLAngelo Posted: Oct 25, 2009 11:02 PM

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I want to start trying soon, DH would wait 3 years... not that he doesn't want one but he doesn't feel we are stable enough. We turn 30 this year so I would rather try sooner then later in case we have any problems.

We have both agreed to wait at least a year. We want to enjoy all next summer, just us, since this summer seemed non-existent and its our time... with fast boats and parties at the shore, and things we can't do once i am pregnant. We agreed we would start trying (meaning I go off the pill) next fall. But since I am currently subbing I don't know how my job will play into our plans.

caper24 Posted: Oct 26, 2009 03:30 AM

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Posted by meara

I would do it now if I could DH wants to wait a bit to make sure he gets a job after grad school etc. . which I know is wise but I'm going to be 37 in two weeks and feel like BABY NOOOOOOOOWW!! damn I'm old

You are so NOT old!! I am 41, will be 42 in January. I feel I still have plenty of time. As long as you stay healthy, age is just a number. I have a friend who is 48 and she's having her first baby.

MrsInglima Posted: Oct 26, 2009 07:14 AM

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5 years, although I'd really like to try sooner, but it's a matter of graduate school. I'm not having a baby AND working on my PhD at the same time. I'd kill myself.