Back for good

Im not a fake bride, or a fake person, and surely I am not mentally ill- to be posting close to 6,000 posts and not ever even have had a wedding.??? Or looking to stir drama up.

If anyones posted “personal information” on this website. Its definitely ME. and i think i made a big mistake, because ppl poked fun at them My first year of marriage has not been roses and bliss. And no don’t say “you know what you were getting yourself in to.” Ive been with DH for quite some time, and he is my best friend. We didn’t live together before marriage because neither set of parents would have ever approved…and after signing on the dotted lines, so much changed, our lives merged together. I’ve had difficult times with my mother in law, she is a sweet woman at heart but has always interefered and tried to be a third wheel, so NO all the stuff ive posted is not a lie. Sometimes its just a lot to deal with, and LIW was a great outlet for me to express my feelings, make friends, get advice, give advice- because ultimately we all have a common denominator…were newlyweds.

Because of those reasons and others I chose not to post up pictures of my wedding, As it is earlier there was a thread with a compare and contrast picture of me, and someone made a remark that I had “way too much make up on for my wedding” Well firstly, if you got a glimpse of my wedding pictures my colors were red, gold, and orange. You cant expect me to have a lil neutral lipstick on, and some subtle eyeshadow...And whoever made that comment it really hurt me. Pakistani/indian weddings are way different in regards to makeup, dress, food etc.

Furthermore, until yesterday, I think no one on this board can say that ive been mean, rude, condescending to them, infact for those that ever sent me a FM or ive talked to a lot through FM can vouch.

Also, I never wrote a review because I was simply lazy. But that doesn’t make a fake bride. I didn’t post my wedding pictures, because I didn’t want to. So many people come on to this site, and like I said before a girls wedding was almost canceled because her FH ex tried to cancel the reception hall. Im afraid of lurkers.

Anyways, for whoever was highly offended and disturbed by posting personal information on here, and thinking i was a FAKE. Thats not really my problem you chose to post it out in the open...
I dont think i should have to sit here and post up pics with signs on it to say yeah im luvabul, im sara. This is a forum, a chat room, NOT a job for the FBI. so lighten up. I've never sat behind the computer and wondered if someone was telling the truth, someone is a fake bride, because quite frankly if they are WHO CARES...theyre the ones wasting their time on here...

Im not posting to prolong this 'drama' but i deactivated my account ysterday, because i was just so upset, but to let a few ppl i dont even know on here dictate my postings didnt make sense to me today, especially after i missed the boards so much...

so im sorry for those who are upset, and im back for those who mised me.