b!tch?

Do you consider yourself a b!tch?

Just wanted to know your thoughts.

I personally am way too nice and I get walked all over. I need to be more of a b!tch sometimes.

My friends tell me I'm a bish I don't think I'm that bad. Part of it is that I just have a natural bish face. I've been told when people meet me for the first time I just look like a bish but I don't mean to.

Next time you realize that someone might be trying to take advantage of you - take an extra 10 seconds to reply to them and find a nice way to stand up for yourself. Doesn't have to be full out bish on the person but just a little jab at them with a smile can go a long way.

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

i don't consider myself a b!tch at all... but i do stand up for myself when i need to.

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same here
im super nice

Nope -- I don't consider myself a b1tch and I've rarely been called one. I, like you, am way too 'nice'...

My manager's recent feedback from a sales day together was that I am 'too nice.'

I just don't really have it in me to be catty or cruel or nasty or aggressive or loud. Well, I can be loud. DH thinks I am the loudest person he's met ha!

I understand the need to be assertive but I just don't really understand when women are straight b1tchy.

sometimes...

do i really need to answer this?

Sure.. I can be a b!tch when I need to be... but I do try not to be...

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

I consider myself more of an '@sshole' than a 'b!tch'.

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this.

to me '*****' is a clearly awful 'female' type behaving person.

can i be a *****? yeah. but on a day to day basis, absolutely not.

but i'm pretty much an a-hole every day of my life. albeit -- i'm a pretty friendly a-hole.

I can be...only when need be...I'm more of a b!tch at work but that's because people are just stupid and I have NO PATIENCE!

I can be SUPER nice and a lot of the time too nice for my own good but if you push me too far or you mess with me or family/friends then you will get my 'b!tch' side!

I do. Everyone thinks I'm all nice and sweet... until they piss me off.

im a bish at work. because ppl here are ruthless and will do anything to take advantage. I tried being nice but that got me almost fired so now I'm a bish. Sometimes it carries over to my home life, especially when Im driving

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Posted by JBC12510

Do you consider yourself a b!tch?

Just wanted to know your thoughts.

I personally am way too nice and I get walked all over. I need to be more of a b!tch sometimes.

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This!

Im a ***** at home with DH. I cant help it. I've bene living with him for 10 years..I cant be nice to him all the time lol

I am nice everywhere else! :)

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Posted by JBC12510

I personally am way too nice and I get walked all over. I need to be more of a b!tch sometimes.

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ITA with this. However, when I do stand up for myself, I think people think I'm an even bigger b!tch than if I would just always give people an attitude.

I feel guilty when I try to stand up for myself and thereby act like a b!tch, but I think I need to put my foot down. If you don't stand up for yourself, no one will.

I'm going to 3rd or 4th the Im more of an a-hole than a bish some 90% of the time. My sister however is a biatchhhhhhhh. Even when shes being sweet and really nice, she comes off as being bishy like. Some people just have that look

No, far from it. But, I have seriously bad road rage, I wonder what people call me then? I don't think standing up for yourself is considered to be bitchy. I find it to be assertive =)

Fh calls me a tiger, when someone is a moron, I just attack. LOL

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Posted by Cookie De La Devine

My sister however is a biatchhhhhhhh. Even when shes being sweet and really nice, she comes off as being bishy like. Some people just have that look

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this is totally me. people don't believe i'm sincere when i'm being nice because i still have that 'look'

dh's friends call it the 'death look' lol

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Posted by Clover23

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Posted by Cookie De La Devine

My sister however is a biatchhhhhhhh. Even when shes being sweet and really nice, she comes off as being bishy like. Some people just have that look

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this is totally me. people don't believe i'm sincere when i'm being nice because i still have that 'look'

dh's friends call it the 'death look' lol

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I knew Cookie was going to say that about me, but I can be an @sshole too, it depends on the day. I also have a very good 'death look' that comes in handy and Cookie will ask me to give people it sometimes for her