Ok it has been an interesting month since DH & I got married. With his father and grandmother in the hospital the days following, and then him getting into an accident last week at work (He's ok) he's been on vacation/sick since May 24th. I didn't even take a week off for our wedding!!! We didn't take a honeymoon because hes been testing for his AMT license.
Anywhoo, since he's been out he has been hanging out at his fire house or dunkin donuts with our friends till all hours. I go to bed around midnight just so I can get up on time for work. Every single night DH has been coming in between 3 and 4am WAKING ME UP!!!! So needless to say I've been a bit tired and now am getting cranky. I didn't want to say anything to him but I'm having trouble functioning the last few days between work, housework, laundry dishes, etc. while he sits around doing nothing but going on calls when the pager goes off then telling me that he can't lift the laundry basket because of his back from the accident. But you can go on a rescue call and lift a 200lb person on a strecher?!?!?!?! So this morning I said something to him and he just grumbled that he tried to be quiet and not wake me up. I don't want to start a fight but what should I do?
jtgarsik
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Re: DH GGGRRRRRR!!!!!!
to me COMMUNICATOIN is THE most important part of a marraige..... u need to have a real conversation with him about this and tell him how u feel!!!!!!