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Did anyone have any wedding guests attend who were not on your invite list?

suven Posted: Jul 07, 2004 08:56 AM+

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Posted: Jul 07, 2004 08:56 AM

Did anyone have any wedding guests attend who were not on your invite list?

So, I don't want to actually say 'not invited' because that just sounds mean...

But, I recently discovered that I had a wedding guest who was 'not on the invite list'.

I didn't realize it. And, nope, he didnt' take anyone else's spot. His parents told him that since he was in the area, and always carries a tux in his car (he's a musician), that he should stop by. Well, he was VERY nice, and he enjoyed everything: the cocktail hour, dinner, desert...

wc0143 Posted: Jul 07, 2004 11:26 AM+

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Posted: Jul 07, 2004 11:26 AM

Re: Did anyone have any wedding guests attend who were not on your invite list?

Did he give you a gift or at least a card for technically crashing?

CherylBooch Posted: Jul 07, 2004 11:40 AM+

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Posted: Jul 07, 2004 11:40 AM

Re: Did anyone have any wedding guests attend who were not on your invite list?

Oh I most certainly did!!!!
He was NOT INVITED whatsoever! He is a friend of my uncle's and grandmother that I can not stand.
And to top it off... He came in JEANS AND A T-SHIRT! I was beyond mad... but I let it slide since I didn't want any drama on my day.
And of course, he showed up with nothing... not even a card!
I was planning to confront him, but since it's been 3 months since my wedding, DH convinced me to just let it go.
Once a loser... ALWAYS a loser.

sweetadeline Posted: Jul 07, 2004 12:59 PM+

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Posted: Jul 07, 2004 12:59 PM

Re: Did anyone have any wedding guests attend who were not on your invite list?

Posted by CherylBooch

Oh I most certainly did!!!!
He was NOT INVITED whatsoever! He is a friend of my uncle's and grandmother that I can not stand.
And to top it off... He came in JEANS AND A T-SHIRT! I was beyond mad... but I let it slide since I didn't want any drama on my day.
And of course, he showed up with nothing... not even a card!
I was planning to confront him, but since it's been 3 months since my wedding, DH convinced me to just let it go.
Once a loser... ALWAYS a loser.

WOW! That's a LOT of nerve!!!!

I didn't have anyone who wasn't invited show up, but I did have two people who said 'no' appear at the wedding. Didn't mind at all, really -- I was just happy to see them. Plus, they took the place of two people who said they were coming and then DIDN'T!