Did I miss something??

Every now and again I see someone post about this 'honeymoon phase'. DH and I never really felt that....is that bad??? At most we giggled for like a month when we had to start calling e/o husband and wife.....but we were both shocked at how NOTHING really felt 'different'. The day of the wedding everyone was trying to make me nervous, but i was cool as a cucumber.....i woke up feeling a little queezy kind of....like excited....but then oksana came to my house and i was chill from there......

i'm not saying i don't feel great, i do.......but we never felt like....idk...different??? did this make sense???

Also....we've been more or less living together for a while...he was from dirtaaaaaay jersaaaay and i was from LI so we slept over all the time (every week) and we moved in together 4 months b4 the wedding.

hon - we never felt any 'honeymoon' phase either. NOTHING has changed since we said i do...

we lived together for 5.5 years by the time we got married and in August, we'll be together 6 years...

i'm kinda happy that nothing changed though - he was nervous about that... we were already committed to each other...so what else could change, really?

(side note, we're also in DIRRRRRRTY jersey)

negative... i didnt have a 'honeymoon phase' either....

we've been together almost 8 years now.. its all the same.. still in love, but no rose colored glasses

we kind of had one----BUT that was because we didn't live together beforehand....and we moved in like 2 wks before the wedding. so we had that HM phase of being like 'wow we are living togehter and husband and wife and getting used to each other!'

we had those gay assss 'ooo this is our first dinner in our apt. as hubby/wife' or 'oooo this is the first guest we've had over'

then it was 'oo i wana bash you in the head with a frying pan for the first time'

thanks...i feel better now lol......i thought it was just us and that there was a chance that we just S U C K E D.....maybe it's because we live in NJ

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Posted by MJDoc12



then it was 'oo i wana bash you in the head with a frying pan for the first time'

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OOOOH I HAVE FELT THAT! does that count??

We lived together for almost 6 years before we got married........what the HELLL is a HM phase???

We giggled for awhile afterwards when he would say wife or I would say husband or someone would call me Mrs S but that was it.

You put it perfectly!

My dh and I have been together for 8 years...living together for 2 years....nothing has changed and that's FINE FOR ME - I'm happy for that! Still in love

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Posted by PegaLega

We lived together for almost 6 years before we got married........what the HELLL is a HM phase???

We giggled for awhile afterwards when he would say wife or I would say husband or someone would call me Mrs S but that was it.

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yep that's us........i still haven't changed my name either. They effe'd it all up on my marriage license from TOB....they spelt my last name wrong actually i should call them now.

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Posted by MJDoc12

we kind of had one----BUT that was because we didn't live together beforehand....and we moved in like 2 wks before the wedding. so we had that HM phase of being like 'wow we are living togehter and husband and wife and getting used to each other!'

we had those gay assss 'ooo this is our first dinner in our apt. as hubby/wife' or 'oooo this is the first guest we've had over'

then it was 'oo i wana bash you in the head with a frying pan for the first time'

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i love that!

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Posted by davenjess

hon - we never felt any 'honeymoon' phase either. NOTHING has changed since we said i do...

we lived together for 5.5 years by the time we got married and in August, we'll be together 6 years...

i'm kinda happy that nothing changed though - he was nervous about that... we were already committed to each other...so what else could change, really?

(side note, we're also in DIRRRRRRTY jersey)

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same here... he was SO nervous about change; I think he's honestly glad I didn't change my name.

we didn't live together before but he was over like 4-5 nights a week so the only change really has been that he's always there... which is alternatively awesome and frustrating but only because i've lived alone for six years so a full time roomie is hard to get used to... but i love that he's there to snuggle with every night.

definitely no HM phase for us either. I think it's a myth.

HM Phase what is that

The only thing that changed is the amount of stress that has been lifted off of us. We dont have 3 times weekly meetings to go over wedding stuff

And I have to say since we got married hes alot nicer to me lol, not that he was mean before but i definately think its the HM phase i hope it lasts lol

I totally agree. I didn't feel like anything changed when we got married. We also lived together beforehand.
Everyone always says, 'how's married life?' And I'm like, not much different than co-habitating life

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Posted by TheFutureMrsM

The only thing that changed is the amount of stress that has been lifted off of us. We dont have 3 times weekly meetings to go over wedding stuff

And I have to say since we got married hes alot nicer to me lol, not that he was mean before but i definately think its the HM phase i hope it lasts lol

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aw honey that is some wishful thinking....i have NEVER heard of itlasting

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Posted by 040508Bride

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Posted by PegaLega

We lived together for almost 6 years before we got married........what the HELLL is a HM phase???

We giggled for awhile afterwards when he would say wife or I would say husband or someone would call me Mrs S but that was it.

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yep that's us........i still haven't changed my name either. They effe'd it all up on my marriage license from TOB....they spelt my last name wrong actually i should call them now.

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YOU and ME both! The church never send my license in to town hall.........2 months later...I had to go get another license, go to the church-have it signed bring it back to town hall

idiots