Did you bother

saying anything to the people who just didn't show up to your wedding? I have a few people that just didn't show up -- no phone call, text, email or anything. It's been well over a week and I'm wondering if I should bother making contact to see what happened...

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um.. the ones from DHs side i haven't reached out to, and i don't think i even want to.

as for my side.. a family friend tried calling me twice, i didn't answer, my mother is mad at him and i'd rather not deal with it. he called my mother the wednesday before my wedding to confirm the date, then commented on my FB status saying 'i'm married' ON my wedding day, and he didn't show up.

i had another family show up to the church and tell me that day that they wouldn't be at the reception due to personal issues.
i've reached out since and i've been ignored.

i know there were others that didn't show.. but i don't even remember who they were.

i could care less. they snubbed me, not the other way around, i'm not going to reach out to people who don't have the decency to contact or congratulate me on one of the biggest days of my life.

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i did.

they just said 'our kid was sick and we didn't feel comfortable getting a sitter'

not even a 'sorry'

fkk them.

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nope. i had 2 no-shows- cousins who up til the day before were coming then didnt because one of them was leaving for thailand 6 days later

she didnt know this in advance? like, the day before?

either way they were my mom's guests so its up to her to deal

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Dh's ditzy cousin was a noshow. we havent spoken with her

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if you knew the no-shows well enough, i'd ask them ... or have your family ask.

otherwise, i'd just let it go.

ps: welcome back

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Nope.

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no

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I had a girl call me the morning of the wedding saying that she would like to give me money for her plate since she can't make it. Honestly, I'm not going to be like okay you owe me X amount of dollars. I never spoke to her again. That is a friendship deal breaker for me.

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Nope

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Nope... they were all on DH's side and it's not like it will change anything so I can't be bothered

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the only person who didnt show was mils friend. i will never see her again and it took months to say something to mil. she thinks she made up for it by sending a 25 dollar gift.