Disney, Universal, Orlando Recommendations needed please!

So DH and I are going on a small trip to Orlando next month. We've been before (once together and other times without each other before we started dating). When we went last time, we came home EXHAUSTED from all the activities, lol.

This time we're looking for a more relaxed time - we're staying in my timeshare so we'll spend some time by the pool and we'd like to go to one or two of the themeparks.

I love Seaworld so I'm thinking we should probably go there. I've been to Universal Islands of Adventure and loved it, but the older I get, the more I worry about what can go wrong on all those rides, lol, so I'm not sure if we should go to that one.

Anything new at the regular Universal Studios?
How about the Disney Parks? We've only ever been to Magic Kingdom and really liked it, but I feel like maybe we should do something different??

Is their water park any good? Or any of the others? I guess I'm just looking for some good recommendations. We'd like to make the most of our trip without it becoming an exhausting week. TIA!!!

I recommend Disney Pleasure Island - there's a good seafood restaurant there - Capt Jack's maybe?

Do some shopping and strolling, also there's the Disney Boardwalk - also good for strolling.

If you want to relax, skip the parks - the only one I'd recommend is Epcot - you can travel the world!! They have a few rides there - Soarin' is pretty cool and not at all scary...

Seaworld is definitlely a good time! they have a new coaster that looks super fun!

Universal i think has a new Simpson ride, and another new coaster.. i think it says it on the website..

now nothing beats DisneyWorld! we went on our HM and a couple times before that!

Epcot is more of a learning, and educational park , love the restaurants.. and some cool rides there!
MGM has the most rides in Disney , so if you are looking for rides thats where you want to be!

if you want a nightlife.. you should go to Pleasure Island!! we LOVE it there!! they have a comedy club and all other clubs on the strip.. so much fun!

well thats the basic rundown.. but if you want to know more about a certain park feel free to FM me!