Do you get jealous easily when dh is talking with other women?

apriladam9206 Posted: Apr 13, 2008 08:21 PM

Do you get jealous easily when dh is talking with other women?

Just wondering. DH and I often go out and we are both very social people. There was one night we were at the Nutty and he was outside talking to these 2 girls and I was talking to a friend. After my conversation was over with my friend, I walked over to my DH. The 2 girls introduced themselves to me. When my dh (FI at the time) said that I was over there talking to a friend they asked him if I was going to get mad he was talking to other females. He said no. They felt bad and didnt want me to get mad even though he said I wouldn't. We ended up talking all night.

ETA: I could care less who he talks to. I know hes coming home with me or coming home to me. Same thing for him.

PegaLega Posted: Apr 13, 2008 08:25 PM

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Nope, I think its funny and so does he.
He says that since he has gotten married he has gotten hit on more then he did before he was married

failurebydsign Posted: Apr 13, 2008 08:29 PM

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Posted by PegaLega

Nope, I think its funny and so does he.
He says that since he has gotten married he has gotten hit on more then he did before he was married

MINE TOO!!

we were ouast night and i witnessed a girl looking at him ( i have no idea why)

and she came up and they were talking and i knew what he wasdoing..and he held up his hand to show the girl his ring

it was hilarious

and the girl said..oh she wont know..heres my phone number

i called her like10 minutes later and waved to her across from the bar..it was funny..our friends were cracking up

B22 Posted: Apr 13, 2008 08:31 PM

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nope. I am perfectly comfortable and secure in my relationship that I 100% trust him.

He can talk to whomever he pleases.

PreshusSmurf Posted: Apr 13, 2008 08:37 PM

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Posted by failurebydsign

and the girl said..oh she wont know..heres my phone number

i called her like10 minutes later and waved to her across from the bar..it was funny..our friends were cracking up

Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some girls have balls on 'em!

(her, not you)

Way to go for calling her, that's hysterical!

ant n tilde Posted: Apr 13, 2008 08:40 PM

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If I think she is cuter than me, I feel uncomfortable even though he has never given me a reason to feel that way - just my own insecurity!

Butterfly123 Posted: Apr 13, 2008 10:21 PM

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Not at all. Ill laugh at him if I see a girl approach him cause he looks so uncomfortable!

donegal419 Posted: Apr 13, 2008 10:23 PM

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No definitely not. I trust him 100% and so it's never been an issue.

I also have several guy friends and have always been that 'guy's girl'... you know drinking beers and watching the game and DH has never had an issue either.

nifheim Posted: Apr 13, 2008 10:25 PM

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i love this - my dh was in a band for the first three years of dating and a pretty well established one on the local circuit. He went to on var. shows on mini tours on major tours signed boobs and drank with strippers. Never bothered me except one night i got hammered with a bottle of jack and called him and this girl picked up. NOW ANYONE would flip - i said hey that prick belongs to me so what you doing with it currently? She goes actually he passed out on the toilet and we were going to call you to ask how to you fix this. HAHHAHA

Never ever had trust issues with him and never cared if he talked to girls. BUT on the other hand he gets a bit freaky when I talk to strange men. He doesn't get angry at me but gets protective of me and walks over. hehee makes me feel special.

Christys0925 Posted: Apr 13, 2008 10:34 PM

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I trust my dh, BUT I am so self concious and hate my body. So yes I am VERY uncomfortable with it. but I trust him so I am working on that!

portjeffbride Posted: Apr 13, 2008 10:51 PM

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never.....

we're rock solid and we're both super-loyal....

Mizzdimple Posted: Apr 13, 2008 10:53 PM

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No i love seeing him in action!

vmystique33 Posted: Apr 13, 2008 10:58 PM

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Posted by Christys0925

I trust my dh, BUT I am so self concious and hate my body. So yes I am VERY uncomfortable with it. but I trust him so I am working on that!

Same here !!

Im not physcho though I just keep those feelings to my self

Christys0925 Posted: Apr 13, 2008 11:17 PM

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Posted by vmystique33

Posted by Christys0925

I trust my dh, BUT I am so self concious and hate my body. So yes I am VERY uncomfortable with it. but I trust him so I am working on that!

Same here !!

Im not physcho though I just keep those feelings to my self

I do too. I would never say anything, because I do trust him 100 %.

JennNicole Posted: Apr 14, 2008 01:01 AM

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sometimes I get mad Some girls out there are just Nasty Wh0res that say discusting stuff to him, & if I feel if he likes it too much I get and than it is time for a good ol' beat down Jenn style

sometimes is the KEY word - for the most part I can laugh about it than just give him slack to tease him .. it is funn!

HamptonsBride Posted: Apr 14, 2008 08:42 AM

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he's got so many women friends that if it bothered me i'd have to be on medication...haha...when we were first dating i was a bit jealous...but now I could care less..