Do you get jealous if DH texts other women

wo0shply Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:08 AM

Do you get jealous if DH texts other women

Just wondering... I do

futuremrsfab Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:12 AM

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depends on who it is really- if its a woman that I know- like one of his friend's wives or gfs, that doesnt bother me- but someone that he works with texted him once and that pissed me off.

lizzie217 Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:14 AM

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Hmmm...I would bc DH does not have girl friends that he talks with on the phone...other than my friends who probaly would text me not him lol.

I think it depends on the guy. My BFF's FH has girls that are friends that might text him and it does not bother her bc they were friends for years.

My DH was never one to talk to girls on the phone or have girls as friends. He was always a boys boy...ya know?

I think it depends on the guy. My brother for example has a fewchildhood friends that would text him and my SIL would not mind.

TommysWife08 Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:15 AM

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the only friends that are girls that DH has are friend's wives and one other girl that he went to high school with that i know very well and love her.... so no i dont.... all the girls he texts, i text too lol

ETA: i acciently clicked 'depends-explain' lol i meant to click no

jonsgirl04 Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:16 AM

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He dosent really have any friends who are girls except for the ones who are already married. so it dosent bother me.

RadiantBride Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:20 AM

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If I dont know who it is then of course if would bother me. DH has a lof of female friends, the same way that I have a lot of male friends so it doesnt bother me. These are people that we are all friends with and even came to our wedding. If its a random new chick- time to take out the bat jk?

wo0shply Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:21 AM

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I guess I'm really depends,

if its people I know and know they're married then I'm ok but if its work girls who are single then I do get jealous.

bluekat16 Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:21 AM

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DH doesn't text anyone..he's actually not a phone person in the very least.

However, he doesn't have girl friends really that aren't related to him so if I saw a random text from some girl I would more than like be jealous, mostly because it would be out of character for him.

MikeandJess Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:23 AM

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no, I'm really not jealous like that when it comes to DH and his female friends.

Future Mulligan Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:29 AM

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i guess it would depend on the person and circumstance

Mrs. Bernabe Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:32 AM

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My husband does not have girl friends that call or text him, so I would not be able to say. He may get texts from a girl at school discussing hw and stuff....that doesnt bother me.

He had this one friend from FL that would text him/email him, at first I didnt mind but when she would call late (to me after 10p.m. is late) I got fed up and told my DH *** is that..and I am not jealous as she is far from pretty (I know mean) but I found that too excessive and did not like that at all.

dajc23 Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:40 AM

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Posted by MikeandJess

no, I'm really not jealous like that when it comes to DH and his female friends.

I second this

Mici n KC Posted: Mar 09, 2009 10:45 AM

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Posted by dajc23

Posted by MikeandJess

no, I'm really not jealous like that when it comes to DH and his female friends.

I second this

Me too

Wifeynella Posted: Mar 09, 2009 01:06 PM

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DH hates to text so its not really an issue but if he chats with them online or on the phone I dont really care too much. DH is pretty forth coming so I don't get jealous with him.

FinallyMrsB18 Posted: Mar 09, 2009 01:09 PM

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I don't know if I would or not? He doesn't text other women. The only women he texts are mutal friends or family.

MnM182008 Posted: Mar 09, 2009 01:10 PM

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DH also doesn't have any friends that are girls that he would be texting. So if I found out he was texting a girl from work or something I would be pissed, and he would have a lot of explaining to do.

Butterfly123 Posted: Mar 09, 2009 01:12 PM

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DH doesnt text any girls I dont know and if he does, its to forward a joke text or a funny picture. I would NOT like it if he were regularly texting a girl for no reason like 'Hey how are you? How's Your day?? That would infuriate me.

lucamon Posted: Mar 09, 2009 01:34 PM

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I used to get jealous when my ex texts and calls other girls but I don't get that with DH. I don't know why. Maybe its because I trust him and also because I know most of his female friends.
Although the other day he told me his ex girlfriend found him on Facebook. I was a little jealous until I saw her pic.

RockysGirl Posted: Mar 09, 2009 03:28 PM

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I really hate to think of myself as a jealous girl, but I think I kind of am I'm VERY uncomfortable with DH having other girls in his life (not counting relatives and friends he had BEFORE we were together). Whether it's on his phone, or myspace, or whatever, I'm NOT ok with him being 'friends' with other girls. I mean, I could care less when we hang out with other couples and he talks to the girls there. Who cares about that. But I mean the single girls or the ones that I'M not friends with also. There's no need for that. I trust DH completely, it has absolutely nothing to do with trust. If I just didn't trust him, then it wouldn't be JEALOUSY, but rather PARANOIA! When I feel jealous, I think it's just my own lack of self confidence coming into play, which makes me sick