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does he remember anniversaries?

vika111 Posted:

does he remember anniversaries?

Does your DH remember anniversaries or does he have to be reminded?

Did he consider your wedding month (like the 1 month anniversary) to be important? Did you? Did he remember.

DH forgot our 1-month anniversary on Saturday, and when I mentioned it at night, he said he didn't know that it mattered and that 'anniversary' by definition means a year.
Elise&Matt Posted:

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yup he remembers for the most part and he also wanted to know if we have 2 anniversaries now LOL he said the original (when we started dating) and our wedding I just was
PattyK Posted:

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DH is pretty good at remember anniversaries and birthdays. He remembered our two mothn anniversary and I forgot!!

Colette Posted:

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Mine can barely remember his OWN birthday, never mind our anniversaries! He tries, but poor boy just can't do it. Occasionally I'll mess with him and say 'DO YOU KNOW WHAT TODAY IS???' He'll get that 'deer in headlights' look and I'll just say... 'Tuesday!'
JazzyT Posted:

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He remembers before I do

Brian and Marie Posted:

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He'll remember the BIG ones, but one month, three month etc aren't important to either of us! We'll acknowledge it but thats about it!

hmv12 Posted:

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He remembers and will usually send a text that morning
vika111 Posted:

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Posted by Elise&Matt

yup he remembers for the most part and he also wanted to know if we have 2 anniversaries now LOL he said the original (when we started dating) and our wedding I just was



what did you answer?
do you have 2?
DH asked that too, but I don't know what to answer to that.
vika111 Posted:

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Posted by Colette

Mine can barely remember his OWN birthday, never mind our anniversaries! He tries, but poor boy just can't do it. Occasionally I'll mess with him and say 'DO YOU KNOW WHAT TODAY IS???' He'll get that 'deer in headlights' look and I'll just say... 'Tuesday!'



I should try that!
hayleyandsteve Posted:

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Posted by vika111

Does your DH remember anniversaries or does he have to be reminded?

Did he consider your wedding month (like the 1 month anniversary) to be important? Did you? Did he remember.

DH forgot our 1-month anniversary on Saturday, and when I mentioned it at night, he said he didn't know that it mattered and that 'anniversary' by definition means a year.



Steve always remembers anniversaries. We don't celebrate the monthly ones though... only the years. Also, now we only celebrate our wedding anniversary (not our dating anniversary).
Love4Eva Posted:

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we celebrate our month-aversaries ... we just say Happy Anniversary - we dont buy each anything or do anything special .. but its really cute

Sometimes I remember, and sometimes he remembers ...
HamptonsBride Posted:

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Posted by Colette

Mine can barely remember his OWN birthday, never mind our anniversaries! He tries, but poor boy just can't do it. Occasionally I'll mess with him and say 'DO YOU KNOW WHAT TODAY IS???' He'll get that 'deer in headlights' look and I'll just say... 'Tuesday!'



Ours must be related! haha...mine forgot my b-day one year...he said he remembered that morning (i was away)..and then forgot by the time i got home..when i told him my friends took me to lunch...he was like 'why?' THEN he was like 'oh my God...oh my God!'..it was pretty funny! Luckily our wedding anniversary is an important other anniversary for him (i didn't plan it...just happened)...so he should remember this once in awhile!
drpepper318 Posted:

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He's good about remembering the big ones, like birthdays and our yearly dating anniversary, but he doesn't remember every month (I usually remind him... he doesn't think they're a big deal).

PreshusSmurf Posted:

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Posted by Love4Eva

we celebrate our month-aversaries ... we just say Happy Anniversary - we dont buy each anything or do anything special .. but its really cute





we do that too ... the first 6 months we dated, we tried to go out for dinner for our 'month-aversary' (but at that time, we went out for dinner a lot, so it wasn't that out of the ordinary anyway )

after that, we said it just for the fun of taking notice that we'd lasted another month .... but it was never a big deal if either of us forgot.

he's great with remembering the yearly anniversary though.

as far as having 2 anniversaries now .... i think we might try to still go out for dinner or something on our dating anniversary, just for fun. but only really celebrate our wedding date. we'll see how long that lasts for
Mich0621 Posted:

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I think we go on and off with who remembers. I didn't remember it was our one month. I actually asked someone what the date was on that day (Dec 18 was a month)...we believe in the major ones...but I accept gifts and dinner whenever. Seriously, I have no qualms accepting gifts....you don't have to twist my arm!
milana Posted:

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He remembers our anniversaries but we dont celebrate the monthly ones, we do though have a bottle of wine with dinner at home just to acknowledge it. Our yearly ones are the ones that matter most to the both of us
PegaLega Posted:

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Yes he does, he said to me this morning that he couldnt believe that today was our 7 month anniversary and its flown by

PeteysBride Posted:

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Yep. he's really good about rmemebering things actually; far better than the average bear. me, lol i forget. he remembers the monthly ones and wishes me a happy one by text message if eh isnt around. I usually remember halfway through the day like CRAP.

werock0709 Posted:

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He remembers, I think thats one of the things I love about him the most. And even on the month anniversaries, I get a card at the least. He's the best
Nlynn Posted:

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DH remembers special dates better than me!

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