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Does your DH make plans without you?

StaceyWill Posted:

Does your DH make plans without you?

I'm a little peeved right now. DH just calls me and says he made new plans for us this Saturday (we already had plans to go see Machete) and I got irritated because he didn't talk to me about it first.
Do any of your DH's do this?
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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my DH does not make plans for us without asking me first, but sometimes he gets over-excited and starts inviting other people before i'm fully ready to commit to a certain plan.
julesrbf Posted:

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He has done it a few times in the past but knows I get upset (with reason!) so he hasn't in a long time.

I would be pisssed too!
MrsDtoBe09 Posted:

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Not really - I think I'm more guilty of that than he is!

AngnShaun Posted:

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He does... but I dont mind telling him that i dont want to do that, and he can... i make plans for us without consulting him all the time

kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun

He does... but I dont mind telling him that i dont want to do that, and he can... i make plans for us without consulting him all the time



Ditto to all of this.

halfbaked Posted:

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched


Posted by AngnShaun

He does... but I dont mind telling him that i dont want to do that, and he can... i make plans for us without consulting him all the time



Ditto to all of this.




Same for us. I just tell him I don't wanna go and do my own thing.
scatteredx12 Posted:

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He has in the past. Normally I don't mind if it's something we can easily switch around to a different day.

AugustBridein09 Posted:

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Yeah, it doesn't bother me.

MrsC2010 Posted:

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Not really - I think I'm more guilty of that than he is!



same!
StellaStar13 Posted:

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

my DH does not make plans for us without asking me first, but sometimes he gets over-excited and starts inviting other people before i'm fully ready to commit to a certain plan.



This is my DH too!
MrsInglima Posted:

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Nope. He always asks me if we're doing anything before he makes plans and on the rare occasion he does make plans if we already had them he cancels. He is a rare breed.

StaceyWill Posted:

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Thanks for all your input
VickiR510 Posted:

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Nope he always asks me first. He knows to ask if we hav eplans before making new ones lol

JennandAnthony Posted:

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he makes plans for himself before telling me.....
I usually make the plans for US and invite friends before telling him
little34 Posted:

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When Im involved no....but he will come home and tell me he made plans with the guys or something like that, which is fine with me. But he usually consults me when I am involved

Clover23 Posted:

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Posted by VickiR510

Nope he always asks me first. He knows to ask if we hav eplans before making new ones lol



same!
LadyDuda81509 Posted:

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DH never makes plans with out me, cuz he doesnt remember anything so he will always check with me first to see if we already have plans!! sometimes i make plans with out him tho, cuz he never remembers anyways i can just be like oh i told you about that along time ago!! LOL

CloudNine Posted:

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not really. he usually will tell whoever wants to make plans to contact me or he confirms with me if we are free first

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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He used to before getting married...and I didn't mind coz I always had more free time than him, so i kind of understood where he was coming from.

Now that we are married, it is different. He always talks to me first about any plans he may be thinking about. He wants to make sure we are spending his free time together.

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