Duet Album and Video Timeline - Help Please

I know that you get your proofs about 1 month after the wedding... but then what?

Do they give you a set amount of time to choose the pics you want in your album?

Can the 2 parent albums be different from each other?

And then how long until you get the video? I am letting them do all the music for the video.

Thanks everyone!

I know that you get your proofs about 1 month after the wedding... but then what?
1. Pick your allotted amount of pictures
2. choose what reprints you want - make sure you think about how many of each, what sizes, etc ... I did this at the meeting adn I missed so much!
3. choose what you want in each of your parent albums
3. choose your baby & honeymoon pictures you want in the video - if they are already scanned or digital they will want them on CD/adisk
4. choose the music you want in your video

(I used those 3-m flags that you can tag documents with in differnt colors, one color for Bride & Groom, 1 color for MOB, 1 color for MOG, and 1 color for Reprints)

Do they give you a set amount of time to choose the pics you want in your album?
Nope

Can the 2 parent albums be different from each other?
Absolutely, two totally different people/families involved

And then how long until you get the video? I am letting them do all the music for the video.
1-2 months I forgot.