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feel so guilty

shoegal68 Posted:

feel so guilty

DH is not one for making a big deal on holidays. I always got on him for this. i mean we do celebrate but his work schedule always interfered (he works nights).

he worked last night & got home this morning around 8:00 & i get a 'happy valentines day' & a kiss. no flowers .etc nothing. so i am home doing my usual saturday grind (cleaning etc) & i am fuming. so i give him the cold shoulder treatment all day. then he tried napping & i made no effort to keep quiet. then as i am about to go out he said ' here your valentine's gift'.. its a coach bag i really wasn't expecting this since we are about to buy a house. i feel soooo guilty since i was being so cold all day. he just really down played valentine's day & i got really upset. he knows i am sap on the holidays. why did he wait all day?!

for dinner, we are just ordering sushi from a japanese place we love. i only got him a small bottle of Patron & chocolate. then i just ran i got some lingerie for VS & strawberries dipped in chocolate.

is that good enough? I just feel so bad since i was a B *** all day. do u think i over-reacted?? i am not one grand gestures. for me its the little things that count. if he came home with just a single red rose i would have been ecstatic. i really wasn't expecting the coach bag at all.
jeanyus27 Posted:

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awww don't feel guilty! I think you got plenty to make it up to him. I would be upset too if dh made it seem like he didn't care all day. Have fun!

shoegal68 Posted:

Re: feel so guilty


Posted by jeanyus27

awww don't feel guilty! I think you got plenty to make it up to him. I would be upset too if dh made it seem like he didn't care all day. Have fun!



thanks! it just drives me crazy cos i am the complete opposite when it comes to holidays/special occasions.
RisiLeigh Posted:

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Your DH sounds like mine. Mine did something similar to me the day he planned to propose to me! He totally downplayed the whole thing and got me so angry and upset. Then HE got angry at me and we almost didnt even go to dinner!!! When he popped the question that night I felt SO terrible!

I think you did fine with what you got him, hun. I am sure you apologized for being a witch, right? Maybe next year he'll give you your gift right away instead of trying to trick you

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