I don't think you should feel badly. Sometimes I just read what's going on over there. Lately I've been deleting the hundreds of things I saved while I was planning & I often post them over there before I ditch them. I spent countless hours on every search engine looking for unique things-I hope someone will use something I post. Do you have anything saved that you think they could use?
NovemberSue
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You can help them with vendors and tell them your experience with them.
shamma
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Don't feel bad, I am finding myself going there less and less. They seem not to need as much help and the questions seems to be so repetitive. If I have answered it once I do not bother to again. This is your side now sweetie. Let's make it NWHNW
Val R.
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I agree! I just said the other night it is time for me to change the spot onmy Fav. places so I just come right here!! I rarely, post & only occasionally read them now.
jenny11.9
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thanks guys! now i can continue posting guilt free!
Cira
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Jenny ... I stopped going over there the week after I came home from my honeymoon. I just wasn't into it anymore and yes, the questions are repetitive. It's fun when you are planning your wedding, bu now, I focus on other things going on in our life!
I also feel that if a bride really wants our opinion they will post on this end. I've been asked many questions about my vendors by either FM or through the Newlywed board! I'm more than happy to help out in that way!
Plus my girls are on this side! Everyone whom I've spoken with throughout my planning days has graduated to this board!
michele31
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I stop-by the BHB side, and if someone is asking a specific question I know about, such as something with my vendors, I answer it. But 9 out of 10 times I am over here. Don't feel guilty, we need your help over here
Sonicstef
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Dont feel guilty!!
I still go to that side and contribute what I can but I agree that its very repetitive. There are plenty of brides on that side anyway so no shortage of answers = no guilt.
Mrs2Be
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I don't go there anymore either so don't feel guilty!
They've been bickering a lot so maybe I go over to check out the gossip!
But, I'm happier over here. I loved my wedding, but I'm so glad it's over and now I can just reflect!
jenny11.9
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i went over and posted - i guess i can be of some help to somebody! but GOSH it is weird that I cannot remember details already!
