For those of you who didn't have 'the perfect day'...what would make it seem better, after the fact?
I'm sure you know about my DH's cousin, our bridesmaid from hell.
I started to think about it some more, and I realized that even if she were to beg for forgiveness, it still won't undo all of the damage she did. Because of her, I look back on my wedding day with a lot of upset and negative feelings.
Although, if she did apologize to us, I would probably harbor a lot less anger.
And, my limo company could give me back the $175 that they charged for OT- because THEY wouldn't listen to my directions and got themselves lost.
And, my local florist could write me a check for $1,000 since he delivered crappy flowers and a crummy aisle runner (which my mother tripped on during our ceremony)
These are the things that would make me feel better...
Anyone else?
I started to think about it some more, and I realized that even if she were to beg for forgiveness, it still won't undo all of the damage she did. Because of her, I look back on my wedding day with a lot of upset and negative feelings.
Although, if she did apologize to us, I would probably harbor a lot less anger.
And, my limo company could give me back the $175 that they charged for OT- because THEY wouldn't listen to my directions and got themselves lost.
And, my local florist could write me a check for $1,000 since he delivered crappy flowers and a crummy aisle runner (which my mother tripped on during our ceremony)
These are the things that would make me feel better...
Anyone else?
