Friend DRAMA

So there isn't much drama here but I suddenly find myself in the middle of friend drama . How the eff did that happen? I barely speak or see anyone enough to really be in the middle of anything...UGH.

So My one friend (R) sent me a facebook note saying that another friend of mine (M) told her that I said that she was kicked out of the group because of her life choices and her BF. Which is totally not true. First of all we're 30 something...groups aren't really part of my life anymore. I would never say anything like that because I don't readily pass judgement on anyone or their situation. Well this morning they had email war and CC'd me on it. M wrote that it was all a misunderstnding and that she didn't mean it that way. But then in the same email told R about an incident with her BF...totally wrong time to do that.

I don't even know what to reply or if even to reply.

How is this even at my doorstep, I haven't seen or spoken to either one in weeks!

ughh how nice of them to stick you in the middle- we're grown women in my group and this shiiit still goes on

only advice I can give you is- let them fight it out and dont say anything- otherwise they might turn on you

oh good lord - people can me so stupid & immature!!

honestly i wouldn't even respond right now...wait a few days, and then i'd call her & say exactly what u just told us..'It's completely untrue & i dont' even know how i got in the middle of this!' apologize if for some reason she feels that way, and let that be it!

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Posted by MikeandJess

you should write them both back and let them know you have nothing to do with their argument and to please remove you from the e-mail.

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so geeze.. let them duke it out.. just grow up!!!!

eta: not you.. them!! some people get more immature as they get older..

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Posted by MikeandJess

you should write them both back and let them know you have nothing to do with their argument and to please remove you from the e-mail.

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I agree with that.

CC is an FYI for you - I wouldn't respond, I would just let these 2 duke it out. If you feel is necessary to jump in then do it. Why they CC'd you in beyond me.

Good luck - I have 2 friends that go at it all the time and I always get pulled into it.

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Posted by MikeandJess

you should write them both back and let them know you have nothing to do with their argument and to please remove you from the e-mail.

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I think I just might do that.

i would monitor the argument......

let them try to work it out or fight it out....

but i would not get involved if you dont have to.....

but by keeping an eye on it you could potentially be a mediator for them......

good luck

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Posted by MikeandJess

you should write them both back and let them know you have nothing to do with their argument and to please remove you from the e-mail.

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ITA!