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Friendship Dilemma (long)

snowflake Posted:

Friendship Dilemma (long)

Ok, I'm hoping you girls can help me with this major problem I've been having. When I was growing up, I was always close with this girl named 'Kristen.' We lost touch over time but when I became engaged, I called and got back in touch. I asked her to be a BM in our wedding and when she accepted, I was ecstatic to revive the friendship. We started emailing / talking frequently and it was great. She became engaged after a few months and asked me to a BM as well. After both of our weddings, I have tried calling / emailing her and she hasn't responded. I'm sure her number hasn't changed because it's her voice on the machine. I even went as far to mail her a card saying, 'I know we haven't spoke in a while but I'd like to continue being close. Call or email when you're free.' That was over a month ago and not a word.. Do you think she's mad at me? Maybe she just don't care about our friendship? Any advice is very much a ppreciated!

JodiBabe Posted:

Re: Friendship Dilemma (long)

It sounds as if you have made every attempt to try to reach out to her and it really is up to her now.
Preshy7 Posted:

Re: Friendship Dilemma (long)

i wonder why she would fade like that

did you do anything where she should be upset with you?

if not, it sounds like shes flaky
JPC1125 Posted:

Re: Friendship Dilemma (long)

sometimes friendships run their course

Girlfriends can break up with you just like a guy would

If you did eveything you could, let it go. If she never gets back to you then you'll know where she stands.

It ***** though that when you look at your pictures youll see her and have bittersweet memories
((thats why I chose only family for my BP))

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