Great site for newlyweds !
My sister got me into this site : flylady.net
Its all about motivating couples/wives to get household routines down and enjoy life to the fullest. You can sign up to get emails every day and she will tell you things like 'tomorrow you will clean your kitchen sink ( i think she refers to it by ZONES), and that junk drawer...and then read a book' kind of inspirational ways to keep your home clean and not feel overwhelmed and still be able to enjoy life and feel accomplished.... its a great site !
enjoy !
anna
