Ok I know this question has been asked alot but I think about it for some strange reason.....
If you could change your wedding would you? I mean anything about the wedding...
If I knew then what I knew now I think I would change the whole theme of the wedding...I think I would go with a New Year's Eve wedding...I am always looking for something to do and it would be so cool to have our anniversary on that day...also I wouldn't have had to worry about the weather because my ceremony would have been inside and it would have been a night wedding like I would have preferred giving me enough time to get ready and such. Also this year it falls on a Thursday which is prefect since everyone would have off that Friday so people wouldnt need to leave early and I would have maybe gotten discounts. The decorations would have been alot easier and the party would have been great!!!!!
azailia
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our day was perfect!!! we did have a fantastic time....
but..
i wish it was a nighttime wedding i wish we added an hour i wish i had food at my cocktailhour!! we paid extra for the fiesta bar and i didn't even eat it!! i wish my cousin's were able to be there i wish i had reached my goal weight
i wish i had a drink!! i had no alcohol!! drank nothing!! i even had signature drinks!! tasted none!!
wish i had more time to dance more!!
MirabellaNYC
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DH and I wouldn't have changed a thing!
Maybe if 1 thing could have changed, we would have had a longer HM..
Tomlaur0808
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This is a really good question & I really had to give this some thought.
the one main thing I would have changed about our wedding was not asking who I asked to be my MOH & just invited her as a guest instead - she was such a disappointment to me all around it & has led to a lot of hurt feelings even after the wedding b/c I feel she has been jealous of our wedding since we got engaged - & I never would have expected that from her...but.... water over the bridge...cant unring a bell...
The only other few things - minor really:
(1) I would have asked someone to remember to pull down my blusher on my veil before I went into the church...I was so nervous that I totally forgot & I always felt that was such a special moment when my dad would lift my veil & kiss me & hand me over to DH...I was just so nervous that I forgot!
(2) I would have made sure my brother's biotch GF did NOT ride in the limo w/the bridal party the whole day - esp since she was NOT in the bridal party.
(3) I would have tried to make another appt w/my photographer & meet in person the week of the wedding to go over MUST TAKE photos - there were a few he didnt take & I'm a little bummed about that, but the pics he did take were stunning.
(4) I would have been a little more vocal w/ my sweetheart table centerpiece since it was totally NOT what I ordered & paid for.
(5) I would have been a little more vocal w/ the RH at the end of the night b/c I did notice they were clearing tablecloths w/our satin napkins that we PAID for & brought to RH - but I thought that they would have gotten sorted out & come back to us eventually...oh well...
(6)I would have gone w/my gut instinct instead of listening to my seamstress in reference to the length of my gown - it was the perfect length for my last fitting - which was 2 weeks before my wedding - but I lost like another 7 lbs since then & dress was dragging a lot - even w/ the bustle - I spent 25% of the wedding running back to bridal suite to have my girls & DOC pin me & re-pin me...ugh...it was annoying!
(7) I would have made sure to EAT MY CAKE! The RH put a slice down in front of us & b/c everyone started saying their goodbye's - I never even got to eat our cake except for the one bite that DH fed me - but that was an entirely different cake layer - we had 4 different layers!
