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Have you ever felt the need to do a 'spring cleaning'of your friends

soon2bmrsVPT Posted:

Have you ever felt the need to do a 'spring cleaning'of your friends

Right now I have quite a few 'friends' that are not holding up their end of the bargain.

I refuse to let loose and call them out on it, but it really is getting annoying trying to make plans when (weeks in advance) they're 'busy'.

Also, I am friends with some people that, well, quite frankly embarass me.

Anyone with me?
babygirl71777 Posted:

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i have a few of those!!!! its a pain in the a$$ always calling them and trying to be a good friend when its like they dont care
soon2bmrsVPT Posted:

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Posted by babygirl71777

i have a few of those!!!! its a pain in the a$$ always calling them and trying to be a good friend when its like they dont care


don't forget, they are the first ones to say 'I've been trying to call you'...... yuh huh.. sure you have
Brian and Marie Posted:

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Luckily I don't have to do this!!! I've always been very picky with who I am friends with.....I only have a few very close friends and they all mean the world to me!!

MeNBobs Posted:

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Posted by soon2bmrsVPT

Posted by babygirl71777

i have a few of those!!!! its a pain in the a$$ always calling them and trying to be a good friend when its like they dont care


don't forget, they are the first ones to say 'I've been trying to call you'...... yuh huh.. sure you have


or my fav 'you never call me' since when does my phone only allow outgoing and not incoming calls

To answer your question yes I am trimming some of the fat .
vmystique33 Posted:

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I already did my spring cleaning !!Quite a few had to go

ETA : Including my 19 yr old sis
oboediva31 Posted:

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Posted by Brian and Marie

Luckily I don't have to do this!!! I've always been very picky with who I am friends with.....I only have a few very close friends and they all mean the world to me!!


I'm definitely with you on this one. If people start that crap I have no problem kicking them to the curb.
soon2bmrsVPT Posted:

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Posted by vmystique33

I already did my spring cleaning !!Quite a few had to go

ETA : Including my 19 yr old sis


Christ, you read my mind. My sister is definitely gone.. She's made some bad choices. She is one of the 2 that I mentioned are embarrassing.

It's a shame when you have to distance yourself from family
vmystique33 Posted:

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Posted by soon2bmrsVPT

Posted by vmystique33

I already did my spring cleaning !!Quite a few had to go

ETA : Including my 19 yr old sis


Christ, you read my mind. My sister is definitely gone.. She's made some bad choices. She is one of the 2 that I mentioned are embarrassing.

It's a shame when you have to distance yourself from family


I know but Id rather not have to deal with her crappola

Brian and Marie Posted:

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Posted by oboediva31

Posted by Brian and Marie

Luckily I don't have to do this!!! I've always been very picky with who I am friends with.....I only have a few very close friends and they all mean the world to me!!


I'm definitely with you on this one. If people start that crap I have no problem kicking them to the curb.


EXACTLY!!! I've already gotten rid of the crappy friends!! I'm positive that the few I have now will be lifelong friends!!!!
apriladam9206 Posted:

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Posted by soon2bmrsVPT

Right now I have quite a few 'friends' that are not holding up their end of the bargain.

I refuse to let loose and call them out on it, but it really is getting annoying trying to make plans when (weeks in advance) they're 'busy'.

Also, I am friends with some people that, well, quite frankly embarass me.

Anyone with me?


are you trying to tell me something? Is this why you're not coming to adams party??? lol
ligirlz Posted:

Re: Have you ever felt the need to do a 'spring cleaning'of your friends

Posted by Brian and Marie

Luckily I don't have to do this!!! I've always been very picky with who I am friends with.....I only have a few very close friends and they all mean the world to me!!


ITA. I watch who i become friends with because i had some in the past who had hurt me very bad. I have a few close ones who i hope to be friends with for a long time. But I rather be picky then hurt.
JennNicole Posted:

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Yes Spring Cleaning with the MOH! Done.

PeteysBride Posted:

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In the past yes. I try to be more carefully sleective now and hope it doesn't bite me in the @ss. ***** when you have to snip ties but its that or lose your marbles so I vote for cutting em loose.

MushesGirl Posted:

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ugh yes. one of my longtime friends has been mia for so long now; we'll 'touch base' about once a month which is usually her returning my call a week later. and a few sparse emails in between.

i've known her for so long, and this is her m.o., it's just taken DH to point it out to me and give me a reality check on her. what gives? i'm like damn are people that freakin busy???? btw she doesn't work!!!!
PegaLega Posted:

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Yes.....its unfortunate but yes. I cant deal with the non sense anymore
soon2bmrsVPT Posted:

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phew, so I'm not *totally* evil.. just slightly

B22 Posted:

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why you gotta talk about me behind my back, on a board I am on nonetheless?

i told you, i was on VACATION
curiousgeorge Posted:

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Did that. Its unfortunate that some people cant just be happy for others. Also....I cant stand when people like to be two faced and talk behind peoples back. Its so immature. So yea.....I spring cleaned

diva7531 Posted:

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OMG I JUST has this exact convo with my GF yesterday!

We have 2 GF's whom we would not like to invite to thigs anymore, she took the first babystep, but I am taking the huge one! I am not inviting their kids to my DD's party and I invited other mutual friends on a 'friend cruise'

We'll see how it plays out, but I am too old and have too little time to have to spend time with someone I don't have anything in common with anymore!

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