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Hello from Hell..................

Julybaby Posted: Sep 08, 2003 05:41 PM+

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Posted: Sep 08, 2003 05:41 PM

Re: Hello from Hell..................

I'm sorry you're feeling overwhelmed. Being many roles in life is very difficult. Would your life be a little bit easier once routines are set? In the meantime,

Tammy5-03 Posted: Sep 08, 2003 07:28 PM+

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Posted: Sep 08, 2003 07:28 PM

Re: Hello from Hell..................

I'm, sorry you're so stressed. It will get better.

ChristineC68 Posted: Sep 08, 2003 07:54 PM+

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Posted: Sep 08, 2003 07:54 PM

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Wow you have so much going on. I hope you are feeling better soon and that everything else finds a proper balance

stacedz Posted: Sep 08, 2003 08:14 PM+

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Posted: Sep 08, 2003 08:14 PM

Re: Hello from Hell..................

Sometimes life hands you all these challenges to test your strength...I am sure you can handle everything or I hope things calm down for you soon! We miss you around!

Claud2001 Posted: Sep 08, 2003 09:13 PM+

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Posted: Sep 08, 2003 09:13 PM

Re: Hello from Hell..................

I have several family members who suffer horribly from migraines on a pretty regular basis, so I know what torture you must be in!

I am so sorry that you're overwhelmed and not feeling well right now. Do you have ANY time on the weekends to just unplug the phone and be alone with DH? You need to allow yourself time for your own well-being.

People write books about people like you, Liz - 'Women Who Do Too Much'

curly2003 Posted: Sep 08, 2003 09:15 PM+

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Posted: Sep 08, 2003 09:15 PM

Re: Hello from Hell..................

I am here if you need anything

antoinette Posted: Sep 08, 2003 10:00 PM+

antoinette MEMBER SINCE: 5/02 TOTAL POSTS : 1638 WEDDING DATE: Oct 20, 2002

Posted: Sep 08, 2003 10:00 PM

Re: Hello from Hell..................

i know how you feel, with the year ive had between getting married,moving out of home my mom passing

and my family being torn apart my brother leaving for college. Taking on a second job and suffering from anxiety attacks, my best friend getting married. trying to find a house... Its a wonder Im not a raging alcoholic- when does life get easier- pls let me know. i feel what you are going thru Sassy, cause Im going thru the same

Sassy Posted: Sep 09, 2003 03:37 PM+

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Posted: Sep 09, 2003 03:37 PM

Re: Hello from Hell..................

Thank you all ladies so much. I am feeling better today. Still quite busy, but not as crazy.

I think that my life just got real busy real fast. I had this feeling that after the wedding, I would be RESTING, LOL

I just started school again. So that's taken time away from me. It' s so demanding, but I'm determined to follow it through.
As for being a stepmother, I have stepped into my role 100% and love it, but it is also very time consuming.
Work for whatever reason has become almost unbearable. Maybe b/c we just got a whole bunch of new clients? Also, I was slacking so much before the wedding, now I'm actually expected to be productive. WOW !!!!!

Plus I still want to see my sisters, and my Dad, and my friends. But I don't want to take away too much time from my new hubby. That is one thing I've actually been good at. Between him and my SS, they have a lot of my attention now. I've even started cooking more regularly, DH is quite pleased

With all of that said, I think it would all be bearable without the migraines. When I have to take 2 days off in a row, everything else falls behind, so then I have to play catch up. It just gets overwhelming, but I know I'll be alright. I think a couple of you said to get into a routine. I am going to try my best to do this, so there will be some normalcy to my busy life.

So thank you once again for all your responses. It makes me feel much better to read all the hugs. Thank you all so much.