HELP!! Lasting photos vs. my now EX BM/friend

StarIzInkd Posted: Mar 18, 2015 05:44 PM

HELP!! Lasting photos vs. my now EX BM/friend

HELP!! Please and thank you :)

I am making my OWN album of pre-wedding events and one of the wedding itself (all the awesome pix that didn't make it into the REAL album)... but tehre's one face.. that keeps poppin up. My Bridesmaid. She was one of my best friends. Months after the wedding, she ended up hurting me really badly and we don't talk. I miss her like mad but she hurt me so bad that I don't see ever being friends with her again.

She is in so many beautiful pictures. Do I crop her out or leave some? I just don't know. It hurts me everytime I see these pictures.. how happy we were and how we aren't now. What would you do? I'd love some advice or rather just thoughts of how you would deal.

Kimberley2015 Posted: Apr 02, 2015 02:09 PM

HELP!! Lasting photos vs. my now EX BM/friend

Me personally would not crop them out. At the time of your special day you were on good terms. I think because of what has transpired between you and your friend the wound is still fresh so you are feeling the hurt and pain. Is there a way maybe you can have a talk with her? You may not forget what happened between the two of you but you might be able to forgive. Is what transpired between the two of you so bad that you can not salvage the friendship?

prautumnbride15 Posted: Apr 10, 2015 06:01 PM

HELP!! Lasting photos vs. my now EX BM/friend

Totally get where you are coming from! I am feeling the same way but cropping her out would ruin your beautiful pictures! Just focus on the pictures of you and hubby because truly that is what matters the most. I have a bridesmaid who I haven't talked to since my wedding day and feel just like you do. I also have 2 cousins I wish I would have asked but my mom talked me out of it because of money reasons and now there is nothing I can do. I also had a bridesmaid who broke her ankle and couldn't be in the wedding. I

StarIzInkd Posted: Apr 10, 2015 10:35 PM

HELP!! Lasting photos vs. my now EX BM/friend

So funny how weddings change things so much. I don't get it. I heard of people not talking after weddings and never understood it. Although her hurting me had nothing to do with the wedding it just so happened to happen right after our honeymoon.

I get not cutting her out of pics.. it was hurting my heart to cut her out because she was part of those beautiful memories... I just limited the pics with her because right now looking at her smiling with me hurts too much. *sigh*