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how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

Sunny Posted: Oct 12, 2004 12:11 AM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 12:11 AM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

1 month

june262004 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 12:32 AM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 12:32 AM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

18 months. I was only 14 when we started going out.

soon2bMrs Posted: Oct 12, 2004 05:17 AM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 05:17 AM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

we waited about 3 weeks.

didianita Posted: Oct 12, 2004 08:12 AM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 08:12 AM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

6 days

Summerbride04 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 08:22 AM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 08:22 AM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

hmm I think it was around the 4 or 5 month marker.

usuk2004 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 08:29 AM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 08:29 AM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

About 2 weeks...

VickiC Posted: Oct 12, 2004 08:38 AM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 08:38 AM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

6 months.

lbf404 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 12:20 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 12:20 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

Until we were married- almost 6 years

Robeymuse Posted: Oct 12, 2004 12:38 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 12:38 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

I think I win! On our 'first date'.
Well we met about 2 months prior and talked long distance. It was when I finally fly out to visit him. He teases me about that all the time.
It was worth waiting 2 months for!

usuk2004 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 01:01 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 01:01 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

Posted by lbf404

Until we were married- almost 6 years

Thsi may be TMI, and feel free not to answer if you don't want, but to the girls who waited until they were married, was it everything you thought it would be? Are you glad you waited?

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Oct 12, 2004 01:45 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 01:45 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

Posted by Robeymuse

I think I win! On our 'first date'.
Well we met about 2 months prior and talked long distance. It was when I finally fly out to visit him. He teases me about that all the time.
It was worth waiting 2 months for!

way to go

9.17.04bride Posted: Oct 12, 2004 01:57 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 01:57 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

One week, it was the second date, right after I met his parents!

dkwife Posted: Oct 12, 2004 02:41 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 02:41 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

Posted by lbf404

Until we were married- almost 6 years

That is amazing! I hope it was worth the wait!

nylisa Posted: Oct 12, 2004 02:53 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 02:53 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

3 months

brideinapril Posted: Oct 12, 2004 03:26 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 03:26 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

It was about a month, I wanted to really make him wait longer but it was his b-day - and quite a few drinks involved, sooooo......

kel2004 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 05:13 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 05:13 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

9 days.

julz33 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 08:40 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 08:40 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

9 months, but I was only 16

lbf404 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 09:41 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 09:41 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

I am glad that I waited, and waiting definitely made the first time all the more special. I do admit, that it added another dimension to the anxiety I had surrounding the wedding.

Jax430 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 10:07 PM+

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Posted: Oct 12, 2004 10:07 PM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

Posted by usuk2004

Posted by lbf404

Until we were married- almost 6 years

Thsi may be TMI, and feel free not to answer if you don't want, but to the girls who waited until they were married, was it everything you thought it would be? Are you glad you waited?

I'm definitely glad I waited. It was completely worth it. As lbf404 said, it definitely added another dimension of anxiety to the wedding day/night. I'm glad we held out though.

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Oct 13, 2004 08:24 AM+

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Posted: Oct 13, 2004 08:24 AM

Re: how long did you wait before you did the deed with your dh

Posted by lbf404

I am glad that I waited, and waiting definitely made the first time all the more special. I do admit, that it added another dimension to the anxiety I had surrounding the wedding.

i would be anxious too on top of all other things that you have to worry about with the wedding. i love hearing stories when girls waited it makes the wedding night more special