How many fights have you had with your husband since you've been married?

Boop2704 Posted: Jul 08, 2004 01:32 PM

How many fights have you had with your husband since you've been married?

And do you feel you fight more, less or the same since getting married?

jessnjoey Posted: Jul 08, 2004 01:42 PM

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um..plenty of them...
just now it's about different things..money, buying a house, family...

Boop2704 Posted: Jul 08, 2004 01:47 PM

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Posted by jessnjoey

um..plenty of them...
just now it's about different things..money, buying a house, family...

Us too, lately every fight has been about buying a house, starting a family and money. We never fought before we were married, except for a few stupid little tiffs, but now it is like there is so much pressure to buy the house, and start the family. It is driving me crazy!!!!

KerrC Posted: Jul 08, 2004 01:56 PM

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I responded 'too many to count'...but I only said that because we don't really count the fights we have. They happen and we move on. We argued once or twice before we were married. Since being married, we love each other more and agrue more often, but the arguments are never long lasting and are usually over stupid stuff.

Maribelle7777 Posted: Jul 08, 2004 02:27 PM

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nothing major just more of 'you didn't tell me that' - 'you weren't listening' that sort of thing......

but it's like every other day. lol

major fights - 1 i think since married. but we always resolve them.

itsbouttime Posted: Jul 08, 2004 02:27 PM

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haha!! up until yesterday NONE!!!!! yesterday ALL DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but we are about to sign a contract on a house today hopefully so yesterday was a tad stressful.. we all good now!!!

brideinapril Posted: Jul 08, 2004 02:32 PM

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Yes - and its about the stupidest things. Major deals to him but not to me. Example I had a b-day party to go to for a friends son. I didn't get home until about 10 pm - my husband threw a fit because he got home from working about 9:30 and dinner was not on the table for him! Although I did call and leave a message that I was eating at the party he chose to get all mad about it, and still brings it up, this was the day before fathers day.
You would think I always make dinner for him - when in reality, I barely ever make dinner!!!

Anniegrl Posted: Jul 08, 2004 02:32 PM

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Just one giant one. But that problem has been mostly resolved thank goodness

Scoop Posted: Jul 08, 2004 02:35 PM

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We argued constantly for the first few months (partly b/c we never lived together before) over stupid little things. Now things are pretty much back to normal b/c we are used to each other's habits.

Robeymuse Posted: Jul 08, 2004 02:44 PM

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big fights?? probably about 3 or 4 really good ones

they usually don't last too long.

tracyg Posted: Jul 08, 2004 02:54 PM

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Posted by Maribelle7777

nothing major just more of 'you didn't tell me that' - 'you weren't listening' that sort of thing......

yes, thats what we have!!! he NEVER listens to me!!!! and blames me for things he did (like hiding the remote, it was on HIS SIDE of the bed)
and little annoying things that he HAS TO bring up as im trying to relax for bed!!! like that he doesn't want to spend the day in the city on sat since it will be too hot! i swear he's such a baby!!!!

we haven't had any major fights since we've been married and we've maybe had 2 in the duration of our 3.5 year relationship.

sept20yay Posted: Jul 08, 2004 05:30 PM

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We had two decent ones. One on our honeymoon (I cant remember what it was about though, but I remember being so upset), one after he said something I took offense to (we argued for a whole day). Really, I argued in both and he did not, but we wont tell him that.

But noteworthy is that we have been married for 10 months!

Betty Posted: Jul 08, 2004 05:58 PM

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We've been married almost 10 months andwe haven't had any real 'fights' just some disagreements. I think it's been the same since before we got married just different topics

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Jul 08, 2004 06:38 PM

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we have been married 6 months tomorrow and i we have only had one really big fight. i would have to say i overeacted a little but he was also at fault

antoinette Posted: Jul 08, 2004 07:16 PM

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Posted by KerrC

I responded 'too many to count'...but I only said that because we don't really count the fights we have. They happen and we move on. We argued once or twice before we were married. Since being married, we love each other more and agrue more often, but the arguments are never long lasting and are usually over stupid stuff.

amen to that

juju Posted: Jul 08, 2004 11:56 PM

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I noticed that we fight less. :)

denakimou Posted: Jul 09, 2004 12:08 AM

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Sadly, the only thing we fight about is his insanely needy family. But we fight about them alot.

VickiC Posted: Jul 09, 2004 08:21 AM

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Posted by Scoop

We argued constantly for the first few months (partly b/c we never lived together before) over stupid little things. Now things are pretty much back to normal b/c we are used to each other's habits.

This was us exactly. The first 6 months of our marriage we argued about silly things constantly, when the whole time we were dating we hardly fought at all.

Since we've been married though, we probably have had 3 really bad arguments.

usuk2004 Posted: Jul 09, 2004 09:43 AM

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We've had two or three real big ones since we've been married--but we've had a lot to deal with--it's the first time we're living together after having spent over a year living in separate countries, I've moved to London to be with him and am missing home and family, and we're living with a friend, which is really stressful (we can't even really fight because there's always someone else around!)

I would say, though, that we're really learning to let things go so that they don't turn into huge fights. I admit, it's been hard for me...I like to hold a grudge, I guess...I know that's not healthy, but I have a hard time letting things slide by.

Marcela1654 Posted: Jul 09, 2004 10:07 AM

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None really. Maybe little disagreements, but nothing major. Prior to the wedding we were so stressed that we were constantly fighting, so I'm glad that the stress is over.