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How much did you tip your matre' d?
LnP2003 Posted: Jul 21, 2003 06:46 PM+
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How much did you tip your matre' d?

I was just wondering....... Thanks ladies!
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dandj Posted: Jul 21, 2003 06:51 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

They told me it was between $1 - $3 per person, depending on the service. My dad tipped the guy $2 pp that we had there, so I guess somewhere around 450, since we had 220 people there.
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Jenn524 Posted: Jul 21, 2003 07:02 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

I think we tipped around $300.
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ddunne23 Posted: Jul 21, 2003 07:07 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

We had about 100 people and I think my dad tipped him about $150
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LnP2003 Posted: Jul 21, 2003 07:09 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

more more more - one of the head guys @ JT told me it was normally $3-4 pp.... Pete & I got a little nauseous about this one!
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chmlengr Posted: Jul 21, 2003 07:21 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

our tip for the maitre' d was a set price that we paid up front with our final balance. It was not based on the number of people. We paid $175.
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LisaT Posted: Jul 21, 2003 07:24 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

I think we tipped her $250-300. We had 225 guests - she was great, but we didn't have any money left over for more than that
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Julybaby Posted: Jul 21, 2003 08:06 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

We gave him $250 and we had 111 people (supposed to have a minimum of 125). He was so attentive and wonderful! I have also heard that you should tip anywhere from $1.50 to $3.00 per person.
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hotelcalie Posted: Jul 21, 2003 08:16 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

We gave $350 and had 140 guests (she was awesome and took care of everything and deserved every penny!)
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HeatherandNick Posted: Jul 21, 2003 08:39 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

$450 for 209 guests
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IrishTracy Posted: Jul 21, 2003 09:18 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

$300
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drjenn10 Posted: Jul 21, 2003 10:04 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

We tipped $400 for approx 150 people
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dkga1026 Posted: Jul 22, 2003 08:33 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

Lisa - The guy at JT told me the same thing. We had 220 people at our wedding and he 'suggested' we tip the maitre'd about $800!!! He said that the tip is shared with the rest of the wait staff and doesn't all go to the maitre'd. I asked him 'Then what is the 20% service charge for'!

We ended up giving him about $3-400.
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Cira Posted: Jul 22, 2003 08:38 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

I think we tipped $400 for 200 guests.
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christy Posted: Jul 22, 2003 09:45 AM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

350$ for 146 guests...
and the bridal attendant got 150 or 200 cant remember
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boosh78201 Posted: Jul 22, 2003 12:21 PM+
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Re: How much did you tip your matre' d?

We tipped $500 for 175 people. JT suggested that we tip between $800-$1,000. That was insane!!
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ssdare Posted: Jul 22, 2003 03:34 PM+
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tip

We tipped around $2 per person.
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