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how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

antoinette Posted: Oct 22, 2003 12:55 PM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2003 12:55 PM

how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

just cusrious- my dh loves playing playstation with his brother and friens- some times he gets a little carried away.

nrvbrd Posted: Oct 22, 2003 12:58 PM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2003 12:58 PM

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

After I voted , I need to clarify.

He plays on a basketball team once a week so he sees his friends then.

If he hangs out it is usually once or twice a month.

joeslauren Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:02 PM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:02 PM

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

usually once every other week..., sometimes more, sometimes less. but i also took him out of his neighborhood and now he's miles away so that make a BIG difference. if he was closer, i bet it would be 1 a week.

chmlengr Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:04 PM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:04 PM

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

Hardly ever - I have him all to myself!! That is after he works a 60 hour week! All his really good friends live out of state, so we only get together with them a few times a year. I'm lucky I guess to have him around all the time, except for work!

kmcwed Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:06 PM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:06 PM

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

I voted for rarely.

The only things he does without me are play hockey and sometimes rides his Harley with his friends. But that's very rare, especially these days with all the work he's doing on the house.

If you count the time he's putting into the house....I'd have to say I see him RARELY if at ALL!!!

But that's just a temporary situation for now.

ChristineC68 Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:10 PM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:10 PM

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

I answered never - but it's really almost never. I can count on one hand the number of times he's gone out with one of his friends. And it's always when I have plans with my friends.

Sonicstef Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:12 PM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:12 PM

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

Rarely. His friends all have wives or girlfriends or night jobs :D

He spend a lot of time at work without me...but as far as time with his friends, less than once a month. And even those times, im usually invited to go, i just dont want to cramp his style

Catch22 Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:49 PM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2003 01:49 PM

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wow im the only one with 0 to 2 times? wow. Only b/c of sports... I loathe watching it and when baseball or NFL is on sometimes he will go out to watch it or have his friends over. i am always invited, but (especially on sundays!) will often go shopping instead! n average, though, I'd have to say he does this though once every-other-week.

jennbaby Posted: Oct 22, 2003 02:02 PM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2003 02:02 PM

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

Once a week or every other week, he goes to band rehearsal and asks me to come but I have no interest.

jenny11.9 Posted: Oct 22, 2003 02:03 PM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2003 02:03 PM

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

mine 2-4 definitely. he has tons of cousins/family in the area. I simply couldnt' keep up with all the get togethers! He spends probably two nights a week with friends. One of those with me at Sunday dinner....

cooky11111 Posted: Oct 22, 2003 02:37 PM+

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Posted: Oct 22, 2003 02:37 PM

Re: how much time does dh spend with friends with out you

I voted rarely, First day of Hunting Season (he would take me if I wanted-- but no way). In the summer he does Horseshoes in a tournament (they do those things up here) but again I do go once in awhile to watch. I think I do more without him when I go to LI by myself and go out to dinner or a comedy club with my friends.