How Would You Feel.....

sugarkube4 Posted: Oct 07, 2007 05:15 AM

How Would You Feel.....

So it's 5am and I just dropped DH off at the airport so that he can go down to Miami til Tuesday for one of our GM's Bachelor Party..

I am not sure how I feel about that.. I trust him completely and he's down there with mostly married men, but then there are a handful that are just sluts... So that kinda bothers me...

Should I be worried, or am I overreacting??

Any advice??

Happybride2005 Posted: Oct 07, 2007 06:55 AM

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its a trust issue. if you trust your dh, then you have nothing to worry about

ligirlz Posted: Oct 07, 2007 08:13 AM

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Posted by Happybride2005

its a trust issue. if you trust your dh, then you have nothing to worry about

I agree. We all have those feelings sometimes but if you have real trust in him it shouldn't be an issue.

Athee07 Posted: Oct 07, 2007 08:58 AM

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I dont think its a trust issue at all - dont worry he will be home by the time you know it-

sugarkube4 Posted: Oct 07, 2007 09:28 AM

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I totally trust him.. He's not like that.. and I am totally secure with my relationship and with myself to let him go and be with his friends.. We never fought over this once..

It's some of his friends that s*ck!!!

Brian and Marie Posted: Oct 07, 2007 09:45 AM

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Posted by sugarkube4

So it's 5am and I just dropped DH off at the airport so that he can go down to Miami til Tuesday for one of our GM's Bachelor Party..

I am not sure how I feel about that.. I trust him completely and he's down there with mostly married men, but then there are a handful that are just sluts... So that kinda bothers me...

Should I be worried, or am I overreacting??

Any advice??

I completely understand!! As must as I trust DH, it'd bother me too!! Keep busy, and Tuesday will be here b4 you know it!!!

sugarkube4 Posted: Oct 07, 2007 10:03 AM

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I did already buy myself a pair of shoes!!!!

How cute are these???

Brian and Marie Posted: Oct 07, 2007 10:07 AM

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I see your keeping busy!!!

Very Cute!

LitBallerinaGirl Posted: Oct 07, 2007 10:12 AM

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If you trust him then you shouldn't be getting yourself worked up over it in the least.
Let him go and have fun. Absence makes the heart grow fonder anyways.

HelenZ Posted: Oct 07, 2007 10:32 AM

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my DH went to Vegas for 8 friggin days for his bachelor party, and I was completely surprised that it didn't really bother me! and to top it off there was a freakin porn convention at his hotel!!! but I completely trust him......but I hear ya w/ the friends situation, he has 3 friends who I swear will be eternally single!! they're good guys and all but I'd be a fool if I didn't think they were chasing girls around when they're out. I see DH just being there as moral support........he doesn't get involved with their girl chasing!! just not knowing what their doing can be an annoying feeling regardless.....I hope you feel better!!

jenafee Posted: Oct 07, 2007 10:37 AM

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I completely understand how you feel, however boys will be boys and they act like goofy idiots when all together.
He'll be home soon and try to enjoy the time you have w/o him - pamper yourself

werock0709 Posted: Oct 07, 2007 10:38 AM

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I think it would bother me, especially knowing that some of the guys are sluts. I know if it were my husband, and I went to Miami for a bachorlorette party, and he knew their were going to be some floozies there, he wouldn't want me around them. In any event, don't let it bother you. The shoes are adorable, he's commited to you, and he'll be home in no time!!

sugarkube4 Posted: Oct 07, 2007 02:00 PM

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As long as his phone doesn't 'die' we'll be in good shape.. I am totally keeping myself occupied.. He told me this morning before he left that I was the only one for him and he loved me lots!!!

ruzi777 Posted: Oct 07, 2007 06:22 PM

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Posted by sugarkube4

I totally trust him.. He's not like that.. and I am totally secure with my relationship and with myself to let him go and be with his friends.. We never fought over this once..

It's some of his friends that s*ck!!!

I totally inderstand what you are Going through.

I know you Trust your Hubbie, but you just don't Trust the other people.

You Have Nothing to Worry about.