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I need your help
Future Mrs H
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:39 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:39 AM
I need your help
My Boss's mother passed away and the funeral was in Greece. None of us obviously could go and we couldnt send flowers but we did take up a collection for him.We collected $200. i know he wont want to accept the money. i found where you can plant trees in memory of someone and that is $95 for 1 acre of trees. I still have around $100 left. What can we do with the rest? I am not sure about any charities that he gives to so I dont want to go that route. Someone told me not to do a fruit basket because Greek people always send them and he probably will have a whole bunch already (Greek girls, is that true?)
He will be coming back to NY today and I want to send something for this weekend.
HELP!!!!
TIA
AngnShaun
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:40 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:40 AM
Re: I need your help
Did she die from a disease? or old age?maybe donate to St. Judes in her name
Future Mrs H
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:41 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:41 AM
Re: I need your help
Posted by AngnShaun
Did she die from a disease? or old age?
maybe donate to St. Judes in her name
Just old age. St Judes is a good idea
CarolAnn721
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:41 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:41 AM
Re: I need your help
I would buy a gift card to restaurants in his neighborhood that deliver so they can order in this weekend.
Future Mrs H
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:43 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:43 AM
Re: I need your help
Posted by CarolAnn721
I would buy a gift card to restaurants in his neighborhood that deliver so they can order in this weekend.
Thats an idea- I would have to find what restaurants are in his area
Byrne2Be
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:59 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 09:59 AM
Re: I need your help
Coming from someone who's apartment currently has 8 fruit baskets you are totally right to not want to send a fruit basket. While the thought behind one is very kind and supportive (I don't mean to sound ungrateful) it is just so standard and it is actually depressing to walk out of the bedroom everyday and see them staring back at us.DH's father requested St. Jude's Children's Research Hosp so I think this is a great idea! DH's mom is an endowed chair RN at Columbia and always supports St. Jude's for the research conducted there.
LOVE LOVE LOVE the trees idea - what a beautiful tribute!
Im_My_Own_Princess
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 10:30 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 10:30 AM
Re: I need your help
i love the idea of donating to st. judes. its an amazing cause.and the planting a tree is a WONDERFUL idea.
eta- question- when you plant a tree do they supply a plaque that says 'in memory of'? because if they don't, what about having one made?
JAAMS
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 10:34 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 10:34 AM
Re: I need your help
I love the tree planting idea!As for the rest of the money, I think donating to St. Judes is an amazing plan.
Future Mrs H
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 10:51 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 10:51 AM
Re: I need your help
Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess
i love the idea of donating to st. judes. its an amazing cause.
and the planting a tree is a WONDERFUL idea.
eta- question- when you plant a tree do they supply a plaque that says 'in memory of'? because if they don't, what about having one made?
yes they do send a plaque-
This is the website
trees
MikesBride2B
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 10:59 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 10:59 AM
Re: I need your help
Maybe order a meal from Trader Joes or Harry and David? That way they won't have to cook.
Future Mrs H
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 11:14 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 11:14 AM
Re: I need your help
Posted by MikesBride2B
Maybe order a meal from Trader Joes or Harry and David? That way they won't have to cook.
I was just talking to someone about this- i think its a great idea!!
ourwedding9510
Posted: Jan 21, 2011 12:45 PM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2011 12:45 PM
Re: I need your help
Posted by CarolAnn721
I would buy a gift card to restaurants in his neighborhood that deliver so they can order in this weekend.
I was going to say the same thing. The last thing they are going to want to do is cook or do anything this weekend.
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