So Dh had a bach party in AC last night. He called me this morning around 11am and his phone was dying- Said he was leaving soon though. Anyway, around 330 i started to wonder where he was so i called his friends cell that he was with- got no answer but i figured he would see it and have DH call me back. Then, 430 rolls around, and i tried his friend one more time, again no answer. SO, now im a little worried cause it usually only takes 3 hours to get home. I chalked it up to traffic but still a little worried. Needless to say , my phone rings at 5:30, its DH and hes at his friends house in freeport just hanging out!! He had been there for 45 minutes and saw nothing wrong with the fact that he hadnt called me. So i yelled at him and said how come all the other guys managed to check in at home and he couldnt. Then i said why are you sitting at your friends that you saw all weekend and not coming home?! Anyway, i kinda yelled at him in front of his friends and now i feel bad. But i guess its just cause i was disappointed that he'd rather still be with the guys then come home.
So after we got off the phone, he was home in about 3 minutes. He left all his friends and came home ( which he didnt have to do). But he was mad and said i embarrassed him. I told him that it was only because i was really worried and asked him how he would feel if i did it. Fast forward- things are good now. thanks ladies!
jeanyus27
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you didn't overreact, thats just how you feel and your feelings can't be wrong! I would be the same way. Just call and let me know you're ok, is that so hard?!! It's a beautiful day out and I would want dh to want to spend some time with me too. Just let him know that you spend so much time worrying if he's ok, just to find out that he's been 'ok' for 45 minutes!!
Mrs. Bernabe
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sorry I don't think you did. Plus you expected him home, and I would also be mad.
Butterfly123
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I dont think you overreacted. You deserved a phone call if there was going to be a change in his plans.
jonsgirl04
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ITA!! I would have done the same exact thing!
KK Holiday
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I dont think you overreacted. You deserved a phone call if there was going to be a change in his plans.
exactly!
RockysGirl
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I would have done the exact same thing. Totally unacceptable. Not only would I feel a bit hurt by the fact that he'd choose to hang out with the guys even longer and not come home, but I'd be infuriated that he didn't even have the decency to CALL. If he told you he was heading home at 11am, wouldn't he think that you might be worried 6 or 7 hours later when he's failed to return?? Men! Seriously. They just don't think things through. I'm glad that you told him how you feel rather than keeping it all bottled up inside. Don't worry - you reacted the way probably any one of us would have.
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not at all, I think most of us would be upset by that. He should at least call just to let you know he is fine. I always think the worst and I would've worried if god forbid something happened. I would've also been thinking ok its 3 hours usually and yes there can be traffic but if even with traffic its way past the normal time, then my mind would wander. Not to mention you called and nobody called you back, i would've been worried sick. Ok fine they all want to continue hanging out but have courtesy and call first.
Ask him how he would feel if you did the same, im sure he wouldn't like it either and would react the same way.
futuremrsfab
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I dont think you overreacted- I would have done the same thing! I would have been nervous that he wasnt home yet and also anxious to see him after being apart
Kimbalina
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I would be worried and pissed!!! If you say you are on your way home and HOURS later I haven't heard from you, then I think something is wrong. If your plans change, I could care less what you are doing (unless we have prior plans), just give me a call so I am not worried!
