I want to state this all out in the open, if you dont like me that is fine, if you do great. Really, I came on the boards to begin with for wedding planning and stayed b/c I enjoyed talking to all the ladies on the board...but seriously, getting numerous FMs about there being clicks on the board, etc. is just out there. There has always been clicks, there always will be clicks. People gravitate towards certain people whether it be different types of people or not that is just the way it goes.
I have tried to stay away from being a part of a 'click' and have ALWAYS posted to any thread no matter who started it-whether I talked to them or not, my friend or not. If I have an opinion or something to comment on I will. I truly have no hate or bad feelings toward anyone, but obviously some people have that towards me and others, why not tell us what your problem is?
You want to talk shiit about people-do it-but at least have the ballz to post it that to that person. And anyone that says they arent 'clickish' is full of it!!!!
Im done venting
PegaLega
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I guess there just isnt enough of Peg and Ryan to go around for the all of us, some people want their full and undivided attention all to themseleves.... but guess what, youre just going to have to learn to share.
Share and share alike!
DeannaNDave07
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i need to come on here more at night!! its always fun! you girls are great!
Mich0621
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I guess there just isnt enough of Peg and Ryan to go around for the all of us, some people want their full and undivided attention all to themseleves.... but guess what, youre just going to have to learn to share.
Milana, you know I love you! I will always share with you!
milana
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I guess there just isnt enough of Peg and Ryan to go around for the all of us, some people want their full and undivided attention all to themseleves.... but guess what, youre just going to have to learn to share.
Milana, you know I love you! I will always share with you!
and you know i love you! I will always share with you too and all the LIW ladies
DeannaNDave07
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so is 'click' our new pickle now
dont mind me.. im a dork right now
Melimaup
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wow...i can't believe what is going on here! Some people I guess just need to grow up!
KandR419
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I don't post too often, but I cannot believe that people actually FM'ed you about something so silly! Are these people that you've actually 'talked' to on here, or just random people?
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I don't post too often, but I cannot believe that people actually FM'ed you about something so silly! Are these people that you've actually 'talked' to on here, or just random people?
same here - as you can see i've been a member since March but only posted 950 something....i can't wait to make my 1000 post so i can change my banner (don't care about the t-shirt)
BTW - what is 'click'? I'm all confuse - is there something i need to 'click' through FM? I don't really get that much FM - except for some brides inquiring something (and no thank you after getting what they requested)
ETA - DH explain to me what 'click' means...sorry to hear about this - people needs to find a good hobby.
JayLi2007
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I am sorry that this is happening too. It is sad that people take something that should be fun and turn it into drama and hurt people.
PattyK
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It makes me sad to see this happening to you and you definetly don't deserve this.
rfilipofornow
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this is just so retarded. i barely have time to even come on here anymore, let alone FM anyone for not including me in their little 'clique'. but hey, i'm a music nerd, i've been ostracized my whole life - nothing new here just kidding
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I read the post and I wanted to say to Peg/Peggy I don't want to mess up your name I hate it when people do it to me. I think that by posting this you just gave those people that were FMing you a glimmer of life. What do I mean? For a person to come onto this site and sit down and be worried about cliques and whose friends with who is childish and very idiotic. There are far more important things to worry about. People do HATE and they usually do so when jealous. So it is a safe bet to say that these particular females are jealous and saw you as the outlet to purge whatever HS feelings they have. With that said though, creating a post about these people not only gives these people a sense of validation because they made you upset enough that you made the post but they are now 'The Hot Topic' which in case made double digits in pages. In the end really do you give 2 $hits about what these people think about you or your friends? This site served it's purpose you had a beautiful wedding, made some great friends in the process, why let anything else anger you? Did they say anything to you or about you that was true? Did they injure you or anyone in your family? If not, then they do not deserve the attention they are getting!!! Everyone is shouting shame on them, better word is shame on us for giving them an audience. So I say this to anyone that enjoys, thrives on drama, the degredation of others, who enjoys trying to cause hurt!! Guess what Keep on Keepin On! Because you have just done your job! What is your Job, you might ask? You are a HATER!! So please keep HATING!! Be the professional HATER, Cause sweet heart green is not a pretty color but it looks good on you!!
Good Night!
Oh yes please believe that anyone who doesnt agree or feels like FMing me will cause me such grief that Im going to send and FM to Ron or the website! Your WRONG!! I am not one to be cyber bullied. Only ppl that scare me are God and the IRS and last time I check you're not GOD and I always pay my taxes! So any FM's will be DELETED
BunnyBride
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Wow...that is just...weird. Sorry you had to deal with that.
B22
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Well, let it be known.... that I cannot stand any of you.
Tobewed07
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WTH did I miss?? Boards gone wild?? WOW, its unreal!!
Peg, sorry you had to deal with the nonsense....
amytee
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I missed it too! sorry for the silly FM's peg!
dgirl0114
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Well, seems I missed alot last night!! Just wanted to say sorry you had to deal with this Peg!!
MrsQ-in2007
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This is why I like to logon to LIW from home at night - cuz when I don't, I miss everything!
I think this calls for a 'Can't we all just get along?' quote!
TnOiOnL
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WHAT the FLIP happened Peg?!?!
I just DONT understand how people SERIOUSLY try to pick fights online.... gimme a break!
SusiBtoM
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Oy. If some persons take offense to the way some members have bonded, then these persons should not be on a public forum. Friendships form when people click. These persons also do not have the right to FM you and tell you that you are wrong. If they have a problem, then they can find another forum.