if one person asks if i'm preganant.... i will lose it

ok so now kids are asking if i'm preganant yet Today DH's friend's kids asked me

we just got married in April. Yes we are trying, but I i am trying to stress out about it. Everytime, i call my mother she asks 'so any NEWS yet'

i should just fake everybody out & wear padding underneath my shirt

It only gets worse. We have been married for a year now and I feel like everyone is always asking me!!!! I hate it

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Posted by shoegal68

ok so now kids are asking if i'm preganant yet Today DH's friend's kids asked me

we just got married in April. Yes we are trying, but I i am trying to stress out about it. Everytime, i call my mother she asks 'so any NEWS yet'

i should just fake everybody out & wear padding underneath my shirt

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tell everyone that you decided to enjoy married life for a while and youre thinking about trying for kids again in a year. this way itll get them off your back for a bit and they will be that much more excited when you suddenly do become pregnant sooner then they had all expected. and dont they know that stressing you out will only make it that much harder for you to conceive!?!?!? i wish you lots of luck and a SPEEDY conception!!

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Posted by MikeandJess

tell them you're sick of them asking you so you tied your tubes. They'll stop asking after that.

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Try not to stress out. I agree that you should tell them you decided to wait and it will take the pressure off. Good luck!

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Posted by shoegal68

ok so now kids are asking if i'm preganant yet Today DH's friend's kids asked me

we just got married in April. Yes we are trying, but I i am trying to stress out about it. Everytime, i call my mother she asks 'so any NEWS yet'

i should just fake everybody out & wear padding underneath my shirt

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I generally say things like, 'No, I'm not pregnant, but thanks for pointing out that I've gained some weight. I feel much better about myself now.' People have stopped asking because they feel like @ssholes after I say this. And I really haven't gained that much weight, but it just gets them off of me.

you can do the fake baby bump for a few weeks to stir things up a bit

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Posted by KK Holiday

you can do the fake baby bump for a few weeks to stir things up a bit

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Quite a few people have asked me if I'm pregnant and I tell them all yes so they'll never know if I'm telling the truth or not. That could also be a good tactic

Aww, you should start eating a lot, gain a few pounds, start playing nauseous...stop drinking wine at events....

I get this all the time too. My older brother seems to be the most interested in when we're having a baby, he asks us every time we see him. I always say we're waiting a few years. But last time we saw him at a family get together he was like 'well, you never know, accidents happen,' right in front of my father which was a little awkward. I didn't even respond because I felt weird explaining our methods of birth control in front of my dad. At least he got the hint FINALLY and changed the topic.

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Posted by MikeandJess

tell them you're sick of them asking you so you tied your tubes. They'll stop asking after that.

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I will have to try that one next time

It's just a natural progression... people assume that now that you are married you are immediately working on kids...

My dad started in with grandkids yesterday...

We are not even married and family keeps asking....SO are you guys gonna try for a honeymoon baby????? When are you gonna start???? Have you decided on when??? etc etc. Talk about pressure. So i have started repling:
:really sad face: ' Well i cant, i found out i am barren' Just to show them how intrusive the question really is. Then i start LOL'ing. Im mean, i know, but really SHUT UP ALREADYyyyyyyyyyyyy.

ive been married 43 days people started asking 2 weeks before my wedding and its only gotten worse!

don't let is stress u, next time say thats for me to know and you to find out... lol they wont know if ur preggers or not