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I'm pathetic.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

I'm pathetic.

So our condo has been on the market for oh I odnt know...3 days and I am already anxious. I hate not knowing what is going to happen!

Ladies who have sold property before, how long do you wait before you get nervous? lol I mean obviously, 3 days is ridiculous. I am always anxious. Agh. Sorry.
KittyGags Posted:

Re: I'm pathetic.

My co-op took 2 1/2 months to have an accepted offer.

I listed it in Feb, had an accepted offer in March, he was supposed to sign the contract and then didn't in May, so in May I relisted it and had an accepted offer again in July. It was 10k less than the one before but at that point we had closed on the house and I needed it out of my life.

Its stressful. Hang in there!!!!!!!!!!
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Posted by KittyGags

My co-op took 2 1/2 months to have an accepted offer.

I listed it in Feb, had an accepted offer in March, he was supposed to sign the contract and then didn't in May, so in May I relisted it and had an accepted offer again in July. It was 10k less than the one before but at that point we had closed on the house and I needed it out of my life.

Its stressful. Hang in there!!!!!!!!!! [/QUOTE

Ok that's not too bad! Where was your coop?
piscescutie2002 Posted:

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Well, the problem may also be that you're getting anxious about getting anxious which is like doing a double whammy on yourself. You sound like me!! I am not great with any kind of anticipation anxiety. I don't know how people who are waiting to get voted off a reality show or waiting for a loved one who is missing, cope!!

Anyway, maybe you are putting too much weight on what it means to sell the condo? Excited to move into a new place? Money? From what the other girl before me wrote, it sounds like a process that takes some time. Give yourself a break. You'll most likely get desensitized with the apprehension after a few weeks. I can see from your subject line you have a sense of humor too. A self deprecating one but never the less, find the humor in it all!

Good luck
azailia Posted:

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My moms house has been on the market since april and no bites and we have dropped the price numerous times.

talk about stressful!!!
LadyDuda81509 Posted:

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awww dont stress!! did you have a lot of people come see it???

did you find a house that you want to put an offer on??
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Posted by LadyDuda81509

awww dont stress!! did you have a lot of people come see it???

did you find a house that you want to put an offer on??



we haven't found a house yet so we aren't in a rush but we haven't heard much about anyone coming to see ours either. I mean granted, it's been on th emarket for 4 days lol.
KittyGags Posted:

Re: I'm pathetic.


Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by KittyGags

My co-op took 2 1/2 months to have an accepted offer.

I listed it in Feb, had an accepted offer in March, he was supposed to sign the contract and then didn't in May, so in May I relisted it and had an accepted offer again in July. It was 10k less than the one before but at that point we had closed on the house and I needed it out of my life.

Its stressful. Hang in there!!!!!!!!!! [/QUOTE

Ok that's not too bad! Where was your coop?



In Queens, Forest Hills. But it was also when the bubble burst. Lots of people lookin but no one was buying...
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

Re: I'm pathetic.


Posted by KittyGags


Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by KittyGags

My co-op took 2 1/2 months to have an accepted offer.

I listed it in Feb, had an accepted offer in March, he was supposed to sign the contract and then didn't in May, so in May I relisted it and had an accepted offer again in July. It was 10k less than the one before but at that point we had closed on the house and I needed it out of my life.

Its stressful. Hang in there!!!!!!!!!! [/QUOTE

Ok that's not too bad! Where was your coop?



In Queens, Forest Hills. But it was also when the bubble burst. Lots of people lookin but no one was buying...




Ahhh got ya...the realtor said he really doesnt think we will have a problem..he said he isnt worried...but I still am lol
MirabellaNYC Posted:

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It is such a roller coaster...we are still trying to sell my place almost 6 months-we've had a few great showings...got 2 offers that were way too low.....then finally reached a deal and tried to go to contract-and the buyer couldn't get approved for a loan

So my advice-take it in stride, always be hopeful, but DO NOT drive yourself nuts over it. I was literally making myself sick over anxiety.

At this point I'm just like whatever happens, happens.....but knowing that it will eventually happen.

Email me/text/FM me if you ever need advice!
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

Re: I'm pathetic.


Posted by MirabellaNYC

It is such a roller coaster...we are still trying to sell my place almost 6 months-we've had a few great showings...got 2 offers that were way too low.....then finally reached a deal and tried to go to contract-and the buyer couldn't get approved for a loan

So my advice-take it in stride, always be hopeful, but DO NOT drive yourself nuts over it. I was literally making myself sick over anxiety.

At this point I'm just like whatever happens, happens.....but knowing that it will eventually happen.

Email me/text/FM me if you ever need advice!



Thanks mama! We really don't want to have to keep the condo and a house so we are trying to just slowly look. We are going out looking tomorrow at a few homes and are excited but not too excite dlol.

BTW I NEED to see pics of the bump and the new do! Miss you Jen!
MirabellaNYC Posted:

Re: I'm pathetic.


Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by MirabellaNYC

It is such a roller coaster...we are still trying to sell my place almost 6 months-we've had a few great showings...got 2 offers that were way too low.....then finally reached a deal and tried to go to contract-and the buyer couldn't get approved for a loan

So my advice-take it in stride, always be hopeful, but DO NOT drive yourself nuts over it. I was literally making myself sick over anxiety.

At this point I'm just like whatever happens, happens.....but knowing that it will eventually happen.

Email me/text/FM me if you ever need advice!



Thanks mama! We really don't want to have to keep the condo and a house so we are trying to just slowly look. We are going out looking tomorrow at a few homes and are excited but not too excite dlol.

BTW I NEED to see pics of the bump and the new do! Miss you Jen!



We're paying for 2 properties for almost a year now....its such a pain...ugh...
Miss you too!!!!!!!!!!! We need a newlywed G2G!

You'll have bump pics soon-the hair is just back to blonde highlights-so its back to a similar color to my wedding. I couldn't take being brunette anymore. Once a blonde its tough to do anything else for very long-you always revert back.

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