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Is it wrong not to send thank you notes for your shower?

curlysue Posted:

Is it wrong not to send thank you notes for your shower?

jennbaby Posted:

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YES!

SomedayBride Posted:

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Yeah, I don't think there's any excuse for not sending thank you cards for your shower. (or for any gift that you receive for that matter) Everyone who went spent time and money on you, you should at least be grateful enough to send a little note. Sorry, but this is a VERY touchy subject with me.

tanbride Posted:

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I think so - i know they are a pain but people will really appreciate it - after all they took the time to chose a gift for you and attend your shower. How would you feel if the roles were reversed?

mishandgerard Posted:

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i think it is a must

ChristineC68 Posted:

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I can't think of a reason not to.

curlysue Posted:

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I had my shower July 6th - I'm going to buy them tonight and write it out and send them off tomorrow right away. . I hope a months time wasn't too late for a thank you. YIKES!

HeatherandNick Posted:

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I would definately send a TY note

SomedayBride Posted:

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Better late than never!

Teri Posted:

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anytime a gift is given, a TY should be sent within a reasonable amount of time.

Cindy Posted:

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I think it is very wrong. When people go out of their way to come to a shower and spend their time and money on a gift, it is the thing that should be done. I am very big when it comes to thank you cards.

ChristineC68 Posted:

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If you can get them out this weekend I think you will be fine.

Claud2001 Posted:

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I was taught to send a TY card for any and every occasion, wedding related or not.

Diane Posted:

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I think it is

michele31 Posted:

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I think it wrong not to send a TY card when someone gives you any gift. There is NO excuse except perhaps a family death or illnesss (and even then it should just be late, not forgotten)

natasha Posted:

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I agree that one should be sent ASAP. I believe it is never too late to say thanks.

ILT1221 Posted:

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Definitely...you especially want to thank the people that hosted it for you.

shamma Posted:

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Yup, you have to sweetie. better late than never
bride082003 Posted:

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Yes, they MUST be sent!

Sassy Posted:

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Send send send.
I was also late, but I sent them. And I got calls thanking me for them b/c they were personalized w/pics from the shower.
SO they saw a reason they were late, and loved it.
People are so appreciative to be thanked, trust me, send them better late than never.

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